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Better Her Than Me is a Boston, Massachusetts-based wedding band that specializes in performing dance music from the 60s all the way through to today’s top 40 hits! The band is fun and full of energy to keep your guests up and dancing all night long. Better Her Than Me is able to accommodate to any special requests you may have, including new songs for your wedding day, to ensure it is the night you imagined.

Services Offered
Better Her Than Me is happy to play during your wedding reception as well as your cocktail hour. Music during breaks at your event is an option as well. Some of the band’s other services include:

  • Liability insurance
  • MC
  • Vocals
  • Willing to travel


Other Services
In addition to the above wedding-related music services, Better Her Than Me can also provide the following band items:

  • Lighting
  • Microphones
  • Sound/PA system
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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in your wedding reception music package?

Cocktail Hour Music
Learning New Songs
Lighting
MC
Music During Breaks
Reception Music
Sound/PA System
Travel Expenses

Which of the following are included in your popular wedding package?

Ceremony Music
Cocktail Hour Music
Learning New Songs
Lighting
MC
Music During Breaks
Reception Music
Sound/PA System
Travel Expenses

Are you an agency or a band?

Band

How many musicians are in your band(s)?

4 - 6

What genres of music does (do) your band(s) play?

Classic Rock
Dance
Funk
Motown
Oldies
Pop
R&B / Soul
Rock

What music services do you provide?

Instrumentals
Cocktail Hour Music
Learning New Songs
MC
Reception Music
Music During Breaks
Vocals
Liability Insurance
Willing to Travel

What items are available?

Lighting
Microphones
Sound/PA System

Reviews of Better Her Than Me

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"Better Her Than Me" received high praise from wedding guests and coordinators for their energetic and fun performances that kept the dance floor alive throughout the night, even in extreme heat. The band was commended for their diverse song selection, professionalism, and ability to handle all audiovisual needs seamlessly. Guests were impressed by their ability to cater to various musical tastes and create a vibrant atmosphere, making them a highly recommended choice for weddings and events.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

"Better Her Than Me" received high praise from wedding guests and coordinators for their energetic and fun performances that kept the dance floor alive throughout the night, even in extreme heat. The band was commended for their diverse song selection, professionalism, and ability to handle all audiovisual needs seamlessly. Guests were impressed by their ability to cater to various musical tastes and create a vibrant atmosphere, making them a highly recommended choice for weddings and events.

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Abigayle Sent on 09/19/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Better her than me brought the energy!

On an extremely hot summer night, better her than me brought the energy and kept the party dancing. Despite the heat, no one wanted to leave the dance floor.
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Mm Sent on 09/18/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Could not have asked for more

Very strongly recommend BHTM - they were a blast! Our wedding coordinator said we wouldn't need to rent such a big dance floor, but I'm glad we did. Not only did they get everyone onto the dance floor, but they also handled all of the a/v "stuff" for our ceremony and dinner, which went flawlessly. They followed through on everything and were an absolute pleasure to work with. Paul was there all day!
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Matti Sent on 09/17/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent wedding band!

"Better Her Than Me" made our this wedding night truly unforgettable! Their energetic and fun performance kept the dance floor alive all night long. The band's song selection was diverse, catering to various tastes and ensuring everyone had a fantastic time. They looked and sounded extremely professional, creating a vibrant atmosphere. We highly recommend "Better Her Than Me" to anyone looking for a wedding band that knows how to keep the party going!
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Jordan Sent on 09/17/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Awesome Band!

I was a guest at a wedding last weekend where Better Her Than Me performed and they were fabulous! They had great energy for the entire performance and were so much fun. They even learned some specific songs at the bride and groom’s request which made the experience feel unique and special. Highly recommend them for your event!
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Esme Sent on 09/17/2023
5 out of 5 rating

phenomenal

They went above and beyond helping us make sure everything sound related went smoothly. Their music was so much fun- everyone was dancing all night!
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Jen P. Sent on 12/28/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The band brought great energy!

Thank you for a great night! My son and I had a wonderful time dancing. We flew in from Nashville and absolutely adored the band!
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Julie Sent on 09/25/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Bridal Party

Weddings can be chaotic. The band was extremely tolerant/flexible with all changes. They provided encouragement to those who were nervous speaking. Most importantly, the music was meant for the crowd! The brand knew what they were doing. 110% RECOMMENDATION!!
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Dan D. Sent on 09/25/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Very Great Band

They band that played was very good, they played the style music we asked. They kept the party going. Highly recommend
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Monique Sent on 09/24/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing, flexible and talented!

BHTM played at our wedding on 9/17/22. They were amazing! Paul communicated well leading up to our wedding and they were incredibly flexible to help provide music for the ceremony, cocktail hr and reception. They found all the songs I wanted for the ceremony and played those pre-recorded. Their energy was positive and upbeat and we all had a blast. They are incredibly talented! We would hire them again in a heartbeat!
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Robert Sent on 12/02/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Great Band

BHTM was terrific for our wedding. They were very easy to work with and handled our custom requests perfectly. All the guests across several generations loved them.
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
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