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Better Her Than Me

Allston, MA

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Abigayle Sent on 09/19/2023

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Better her than me brought the energy!

On an extremely hot summer night, better her than me brought the energy and kept the party dancing. Despite the heat, no one wanted to leave the dance floor.
Mm Sent on 09/18/2023

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Could not have asked for more

Very strongly recommend BHTM - they were a blast! Our wedding coordinator said we wouldn't need to rent such a big dance floor, but I'm glad we did. Not only did they get everyone onto the dance floor, but they also handled all of the a/v "stuff" for our ceremony and dinner, which went flawlessly. They followed through on everything and were an absolute pleasure to work with. Paul was there all day!
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Excellent wedding band!

"Better Her Than Me" made our this wedding night truly unforgettable! Their energetic and fun performance kept the dance floor alive all night long. The band's song selection was diverse, catering to various tastes and ensuring everyone had a fantastic time. They looked and sounded extremely professional, creating a vibrant atmosphere. We highly recommend "Better Her Than Me" to anyone looking for a wedding band that knows how to keep the party going!

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Jordan Sent on 09/17/2023

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Awesome Band!

I was a guest at a wedding last weekend where Better Her Than Me performed and they were fabulous! They had great energy for the entire performance and were so much fun. They even learned some specific songs at the bride and groom’s request which made the experience feel unique and special. Highly recommend them for your event!
Esme Sent on 09/17/2023

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phenomenal

They went above and beyond helping us make sure everything sound related went smoothly. Their music was so much fun- everyone was dancing all night!
Jen P. Sent on 12/28/2022

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The band brought great energy!

Thank you for a great night! My son and I had a wonderful time dancing. We flew in from Nashville and absolutely adored the band!
Julie Sent on 09/25/2022

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Bridal Party

Weddings can be chaotic. The band was extremely tolerant/flexible with all changes. They provided encouragement to those who were nervous speaking. Most importantly, the music was meant for the crowd! The brand knew what they were doing. 110% RECOMMENDATION!!
Dan D. Sent on 09/25/2022

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Very Great Band

They band that played was very good, they played the style music we asked. They kept the party going. Highly recommend
Monique Sent on 09/24/2022

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Amazing, flexible and talented!

BHTM played at our wedding on 9/17/22. They were amazing! Paul communicated well leading up to our wedding and they were incredibly flexible to help provide music for the ceremony, cocktail hr and reception. They found all the songs I wanted for the ceremony and played those pre-recorded. Their energy was positive and upbeat and we all had a blast. They are incredibly talented! We would hire them again in a heartbeat!
Robert Sent on 12/02/2019

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Great Band

BHTM was terrific for our wedding. They were very easy to work with and handled our custom requests perfectly. All the guests across several generations loved them.
Jane Sent on 11/22/2019

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Great Band & People

They were a pleasure to work with. Their variety of music pleased multiple generations at our wedding. They had no trouble learning new songs that we wanted included in our celebration. We highly recommend this talented group.
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Adam Sent on 10/12/2019

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Amazing Band

Better Her Than Me was the perfect band for our wedding! They have an amazing repertoire of classic and popular songs, and their energy and musicianship kept everyone dancing the whole reception. Many of our guests came up to us afterwards to ask how we found the band and get contact information. My wife had no issues working with Paul in planning their participation in our wedding and the entire band was a pleasure to work with on the day of the wedding. I highly recommend hiring them as your wedding band if you want a fun atmosphere in which to celebrate your big day.
Anna Sent on 10/09/2019

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Hire. This. Band.

Better Her Than Me was absolutely amazing and completely rocked our wedding day! Everyone was dancing, and we're still getting compliments days later about the band. In addition to playing lots of crowd pleasing songs, they are all truly excellent musicians.

I was very pleased to work with Paul to plan the event. He was responsive to all of my questions and the band learned a few songs that we requested. They also served as emcees for us during the event.

To top it all off, my friend's 1-year old twins were fascinated with the band and kept crawling up to them, and the guitar player got down on his knees to let the kids touch the strings. It was one of my favorite moments of the wedding. Fun for all ages!
Chelsea Sent on 06/21/2019

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Amazing Performance!

Better Her Than Me was amazing! They were so much fun, and their energy and excitement on stage was palpable. We've had so many friends and family members comment on how much they enjoyed this band, and of course, my husband and I could not have been happier. I hope we get to see them play again! Thanks so much BHTM!
Daniel Sent on 06/10/2019

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Great band, great people!

If you are looking to hire a wedding band, let me just say this. So much goes into planning and preparing for your big day, but it goes by so quickly, almost in a blur. Amongst the blur, you will have some amazing details that shine through and make the day feel perfect. ‘Better Her Than Me’ was one of those amazing details for me.

Before I get in to their performance, I would just like to say that communication with the band, both far in advance and in the days leading up to our wedding, was excellent. Paul was always quick to respond and clear on what the details the band needed to perform their best. There are so many small little things you need to figure out with a wedding, but Paul made booking the band and preparing for the reception a piece of cake. I really didn’t have to worry about a thing.

As for their performance, ‘Better Her Than Me’ totally surpassed my expectations! I really could not have asked for anything more. I was worried that our families and friends were not big dancers, and there would be few people on the dance floor, but I was totally wrong! Every single person was moving and smiling and laughing and just having a fantastic time! There was even a point where one of my friends was lifted up on top of the crowd! I may be a bit biased, but it was honestly the funnest wedding I have ever been to, and BHTM played a big part in that.

In summary, this band is amazingly fun and talented, their communication was terrific, and I just overall cannot say enough positive things about them. Thank you ‘Better Her Than Me’! You killed it!
Andrew Sent on 10/24/2018

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Better Her Than Me

Amazing! The band was rocking the whole night! We couldn't have chosen a better band to celebrate our wedding with. We let them choose the entire playlist for the night and can honestly say we couldn't have done better ourselves. The only songs we chose were for the formal dances (mother son, father daughter, and first dance) and outside of that let them choose. Was a great evening and would happily book them again!
Gabrielle Sent on 10/13/2018

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We hired Better Her Than Me for our September wedding. We were beyond pleased with their flexibility, professionalism and talent! They kept everyone moving on the dance floor and we’re amazing at working in all of my requested songs. They were very kind and flexible to even let my sister , her husband and my father let them use their instruments to play a special song for my husband and I. They were excellent at communicating each part of the day with us and what each part needed musically. I would definitely recommend this band to anyone planning a wedding!!
Amanda Sent on 10/07/2018

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I absolutely loved them! Not only are they talented, but they allowed us to use there instruments so we could perform a surprise song for my brother in law. They are outstanding and I would absolutely recommend to them to anyone.
Matt Sent on 10/07/2018

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This wedding band was great! Not only were they fun and fantastic performers, they allowed us to use their instruments to perform a parody song we had written for the groom. I'm already married, but I'll be sure to recommend them to other friends in the area!
Stefanie Sent on 12/19/2017

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This band did a fantastic job for our son’s wedding. They were very efficient in setting up and worked well with the venue and their staff. They played a wonderful variety of music and got everyone up dancing. I highly recommend them for an event.
John Sent on 09/12/2017

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Our wedding would not have been as memorable if not for this band. Everyone had a fantastic time dancing to music from all different eras. The band was very accommodating as they were willing to learn new songs underlining the point that they really cared about us having a good time. They were fun and enthusiastic, while also being incredibly professional. I'd want to rock out with them again.
John Sent on 09/06/2017

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Our wedding would not have been as memorable if not for this band. Everyone had a fantastic time dancing to music from all different eras. The band was very accommodating as they were willing to learn new songs underlining the point that they really cared about us having a good time. They were fun and enthusiastic, while also being incredibly professional. I'd want to rock out with them again.
Nicole Sent on 06/14/2017

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We loved Better Her than me!
They were fun, energetic, easy to work with before hand and an overall group of very talented musicians! We have already discussed hiring them for a future private party because they were truly that good! Both my husband and I have been receiving rave reviews from our guests who couldn't get over how excellent they were!
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From the moment we stepped out onto the dance floor for our first dance until the final note of the closing song we and our guests couldn't stop dancing and smiling thanks to BHTM. Better Her Than Me turned planning the music for our event from a stressful experience into a dream.

BHTM made it incredibly easy for us to share our thoughts on their song list to create the perfect musical score for our wedding. They were also incredibly flexible and were willing to learn new songs that we wished to hear at our wedding. They also gracefully accepted changes to the reception schedule, to the order of songs and helped out with last minute ceremony requests.
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I'm so glad that I picked Better Her Than Me as my wedding band. They are professional and flexible, they took time to learn my first dance song and their performance blow out my mind. My first dance song needs to combine two songs together and they played it just the way I wanted and even better. Their music are great to dance to, all of my guests had such a good time and especially my dad. I would recommend Better Her Than Me to any couple or company if you're looking for a band for dance or just simply can give you a good time on your event. Your guests won't be disappointed.
Jose Sent on 07/31/2014

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BHTM played at our wedding last week and they blew us away in every way possible! They are talented, fun, energetic, and kept the dance floor packed the entire night. BHTM was a delight to work with. They were extremely accommodating and made every effort to create an amazing experience for us all. Paul (the manager/guitar player) worked with us several months in advance to iron away every possible detail. He even stepped in to help (in a BIG way) with last-minute issues with the ceremony sound system! This band not only has a vast and impressive repertoire, but offered to LEARN new songs for us. And they knocked them out of the park! What a night! Thanks BHTM!!
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I can't recommend "Better Her Than Me" enough. They are amazing. They have a TON of energy. They played a wide selection of tunes and kept the dance floor moving all night. I've heard many wedding bands in the past and have played music myself, and I can definitely say that this band is one of the best in the business. Please consider them for your next event. You won't be sorry that you did.
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Only book this band if you want to have more fun at your party than you thought possible.
Nicole Sent on 01/05/2014

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Better Her Than Me is a great band for any event. Their energy is super high and their love for music is infectious. Our friend and family were dancing from beginning to end and still talk about how much fun they had. They tailored their performance to us (they even sang "Hey Nikki" to the tune of Hey Mickey for me because my name is Nicole, which was so sweet and fun) so that the night was was personal and special. They're all great musicians and they know how to keep the party going. Highly recommended!
Dana Sent on 06/11/2013

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Great bang professional and lots of fun
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Great professional band. It was formal and they wore tuxedos for us!
Marisa Sent on 10/29/2011

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This band was completely amazing. My whole family danced and no one got off the dance floor for the entire wedding! I have been to so many weddings were people just stood around and watched, but not mine. This band had everyone on their feet and the music was terrific! We had so much fun!! I highly recommend this band, they made my wedding reception the best!!! They even allowed me to chose the set lists from their very long list of songs. My husband (fiance at the time!) and I had no trouble picking the set lists, there were so many great songs that we loved! And they even added a song just for us! They were so incredible to work with. Hands down, the easiest vendor. And for the day of my wedding, I didn't have to think of a thing, they took care of themselves and were so polite and attentive. Great people to have at the wedding, and I think that is so important. It is weird to have strangers at your most important day, and this group felt like family. Thank you so much!!!
Rachel Sent on 10/19/2011

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The band was an amazing addition to the wedding. They were enthusiastic, talented and kept the dance floor packed throughout the night. They read the crowd and knew when to speed it up and slow it down to keep the night alive and fun! They were incredibly helpful in planning with us before the date to know what our vision was, the mood we were going for and particular songs that we wanted played. They also had great suggestions for songs I never would have thought of that were perfect for the wedding. They even offered to learn songs that may not have been on their play list and learned them well. Overall, the band really rocked and added energy and fun to an amazing weekend. I would recommend them to anyone looking for a wedding band that plays a wide breadth of music well, works with you to tailor the evening to your needs and reads a crowd to maximize everyone's enjoyment.
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The band was the best. They absolutely made our daughter's wedding party a great success and had everyone dancing all night long. They were very accomodating of song requests and have a huge array of songs. They are enthusiastic, fun and very talented. Everyone had a fantastic time. We would definitely hire them again!
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This was my Nephews wedding. I was in the business for 20 yrs worked with hundreds of bands. Better Her Than Me was excellent from setup to break down. Paul and Band played music for everyone. Paul coordinated the ceremony music. I would highly recommend them for any occasion
Bob Sent on 08/17/2017

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Better Her Than Me was excellent to work with before the wedding and was a ton of fun during the wedding itself.
Some of the things I most liked about our experience were:

- They learned 3 news songs for us just for our wedding (and played them extremely well)
- They were happy to handle MCing / background music during dinner so we didn't have to worry about it
- They were flexible to work through a plan that met our needs and budget
- But most importantly, they were awesome musicians and brought tons of energy to our event. We had 3 hours of dancing and there was never a moment when the dance floor was empty.

All-in-all a great experience; I highly recommend!

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