Recommended by 100%
Daniel Dodman · Married on 06/01/2019
Great band, great people!
If you are looking to hire a wedding band, let me just say this. So much goes into planning and preparing for your big day, but it goes by so quickly, almost in a blur. Amongst the blur, you will have some amazing details that shine through and make the day feel perfect. ‘Better Her Than Me’ was one of those amazing details for me.Sent on 06/10/2019
Before I get in to their performance, I would just like to say that communication with the band, both far in advance and in the days leading up to our wedding, was excellent. Paul was always quick to respond and clear on what the details the band needed to perform their best. There are so many small little things you need to figure out with a wedding, but Paul made booking the band and preparing for the reception a piece of cake. I really didn’t have to worry about a thing.
As for their performance, ‘Better Her Than Me’ totally surpassed my expectations! I really could not have asked for anything more. I was worried that our families and friends were not big dancers, and there would be few people on the dance floor, but I was totally wrong! Every single person was moving and smiling and laughing and just having a fantastic time! There was even a point where one of my friends was lifted up on top of the crowd! I may be a bit biased, but it was honestly the funnest wedding I have ever been to, and BHTM played a big part in that.
In summary, this band is amazingly fun and talented, their communication was terrific, and I just overall cannot say enough positive things about them. Thank you ‘Better Her Than Me’! You killed it!
Chelsea Grossman · Married on 06/01/2019
Better Her Than Me was amazing! They were so much fun, and their energy and excitement on stage was palpable. We've had so many friends and family members comment on how much they enjoyed this band, and of course, my husband and I could not have been happier. I hope we get to see them play again! Thanks so much BHTM!Sent on 06/21/2019
Matt · Married on 09/29/2018
This wedding band was great! Not only were they fun and fantastic performers, they allowed us to use their instruments to perform a parody song we had written for the groom. I'm already married, but I'll be sure to recommend them to other friends in the area!Sent on 10/07/2018
Amanda · Married on 09/29/2018
I absolutely loved them! Not only are they talented, but they allowed us to use there instruments so we could perform a surprise song for my brother in law. They are outstanding and I would absolutely recommend to them to anyone.Sent on 10/07/2018
Gabrielle · Married on 09/29/2018
We hired Better Her Than Me for our September wedding. We were beyond pleased with their flexibility, professionalism and talent! They kept everyone moving on the dance floor and we’re amazing at working in all of my requested songs. They were very kind and flexible to even let my sister , her husband and my father let them use their instruments to play a special song for my husband and I. They were excellent at communicating each part of the day with us and what each part needed musically. I would definitely recommend this band to anyone planning a wedding!!Sent on 10/13/2018
Andrew Doolan · Married on 09/29/2018
Better Her Than Me
Amazing! The band was rocking the whole night! We couldn't have chosen a better band to celebrate our wedding with. We let them choose the entire playlist for the night and can honestly say we couldn't have done better ourselves. The only songs we chose were for the formal dances (mother son, father daughter, and first dance) and outside of that let them choose. Was a great evening and would happily book them again!Sent on 10/24/2018
John · Married on 08/25/2017
Our wedding would not have been as memorable if not for this band. Everyone had a fantastic time dancing to music from all different eras. The band was very accommodating as they were willing to learn new songs underlining the point that they really cared about us having a good time. They were fun and enthusiastic, while also being incredibly professional. I'd want to rock out with them again.Sent on 09/06/2017
John · Married on 08/25/2017
Our wedding would not have been as memorable if not for this band. Everyone had a fantastic time dancing to music from all different eras. The band was very accommodating as they were willing to learn new songs underlining the point that they really cared about us having a good time. They were fun and enthusiastic, while also being incredibly professional. I'd want to rock out with them again.Sent on 09/12/2017
Stefanie · Married on 08/25/2017
This band did a fantastic job for our son’s wedding. They were very efficient in setting up and worked well with the venue and their staff. They played a wonderful variety of music and got everyone up dancing. I highly recommend them for an event.Sent on 12/19/2017
Nicole · Married on 06/10/2017
We loved Better Her than me!Sent on 06/14/2017
They were fun, energetic, easy to work with before hand and an overall group of very talented musicians! We have already discussed hiring them for a future private party because they were truly that good! Both my husband and I have been receiving rave reviews from our guests who couldn't get over how excellent they were!
User4503634 · 2+ years ago
From the moment we stepped out onto the dance floor for our first dance until the final note of the closing song we and our guests couldn't stop dancing and smiling thanks to BHTM. Better Her Than Me turned planning the music for our event from a stressful experience into a dream.Sent on 10/26/2014
BHTM made it incredibly easy for us to share our thoughts on their song list to create the perfect musical score for our wedding. They were also incredibly flexible and were willing to learn new songs that we wished to hear at our wedding. They also gracefully accepted changes to the reception schedule, to the order of songs and helped out with last minute ceremony requests.
NAN · Married on 09/20/2014
I'm so glad that I picked Better Her Than Me as my wedding band. They are professional and flexible, they took time to learn my first dance song and their performance blow out my mind. My first dance song needs to combine two songs together and they played it just the way I wanted and even better. Their music are great to dance to, all of my guests had such a good time and especially my dad. I would recommend Better Her Than Me to any couple or company if you're looking for a band for dance or just simply can give you a good time on your event. Your guests won't be disappointed.Sent on 09/23/2014
Jose · Married on 07/26/2014
BHTM played at our wedding last week and they blew us away in every way possible! They are talented, fun, energetic, and kept the dance floor packed the entire night. BHTM was a delight to work with. They were extremely accommodating and made every effort to create an amazing experience for us all. Paul (the manager/guitar player) worked with us several months in advance to iron away every possible detail. He even stepped in to help (in a BIG way) with last-minute issues with the ceremony sound system! This band not only has a vast and impressive repertoire, but offered to LEARN new songs for us. And they knocked them out of the park! What a night! Thanks BHTM!!Sent on 07/31/2014
Nicole · Married on 09/20/2013
Better Her Than Me is a great band for any event. Their energy is super high and their love for music is infectious. Our friend and family were dancing from beginning to end and still talk about how much fun they had. They tailored their performance to us (they even sang "Hey Nikki" to the tune of Hey Mickey for me because my name is Nicole, which was so sweet and fun) so that the night was was personal and special. They're all great musicians and they know how to keep the party going. Highly recommended!Sent on 01/05/2014
User3931367 · 2+ years ago
Only book this band if you want to have more fun at your party than you thought possible.Sent on 02/25/2014
User3933143 · 2+ years ago
I can't recommend "Better Her Than Me" enough. They are amazing. They have a TON of energy. They played a wide selection of tunes and kept the dance floor moving all night. I've heard many wedding bands in the past and have played music myself, and I can definitely say that this band is one of the best in the business. Please consider them for your next event. You won't be sorry that you did.Sent on 02/25/2014
User3298368 · event on 05/26/2013
Great professional band. It was formal and they wore tuxedos for us!Sent on 06/03/2013
Dana · event on 05/26/2013
Great bang professional and lots of funSent on 06/11/2013
Marisa · Married on 07/16/2011
This band was completely amazing. My whole family danced and no one got off the dance floor for the entire wedding! I have been to so many weddings were people just stood around and watched, but not mine. This band had everyone on their feet and the music was terrific! We had so much fun!! I highly recommend this band, they made my wedding reception the best!!! They even allowed me to chose the set lists from their very long list of songs. My husband (fiance at the time!) and I had no trouble picking the set lists, there were so many great songs that we loved! And they even added a song just for us! They were so incredible to work with. Hands down, the easiest vendor. And for the day of my wedding, I didn't have to think of a thing, they took care of themselves and were so polite and attentive. Great people to have at the wedding, and I think that is so important. It is weird to have strangers at your most important day, and this group felt like family. Thank you so much!!!Sent on 10/29/2011
Rachel · Married on 05/28/2011
The band was an amazing addition to the wedding. They were enthusiastic, talented and kept the dance floor packed throughout the night. They read the crowd and knew when to speed it up and slow it down to keep the night alive and fun! They were incredibly helpful in planning with us before the date to know what our vision was, the mood we were going for and particular songs that we wanted played. They also had great suggestions for songs I never would have thought of that were perfect for the wedding. They even offered to learn songs that may not have been on their play list and learned them well. Overall, the band really rocked and added energy and fun to an amazing weekend. I would recommend them to anyone looking for a wedding band that plays a wide breadth of music well, works with you to tailor the evening to your needs and reads a crowd to maximize everyone's enjoyment.Sent on 10/19/2011
Linda · Married on 05/27/2011
Sent on 10/07/2011
The band was the best. They absolutely made our daughter's wedding party a great success and had everyone dancing all night long. They were very accomodating of song requests and have a huge array of songs. They are enthusiastic, fun and very talented. Everyone had a fantastic time. We would definitely hire them again!
Bob · Married on 07/22/2017
Better Her Than Me was excellent to work with before the wedding and was a ton of fun during the wedding itself.Sent on 08/17/2017
Some of the things I most liked about our experience were:
- They learned 3 news songs for us just for our wedding (and played them extremely well)
- They were happy to handle MCing / background music during dinner so we didn't have to worry about it
- They were flexible to work through a plan that met our needs and budget
- But most importantly, they were awesome musicians and brought tons of energy to our event. We had 3 hours of dancing and there was never a moment when the dance floor was empty.
All-in-all a great experience; I highly recommend!