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J <3 B
Devoted August 2015

How similar are your bridesmaids dresses to your dress?

J <3 B, on September 17, 2014 at 11:35 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 18

I'm trying to choose my bridesmaids' dress and I find I keep getting drawn to dresses that look a lot like my wedding dress. I feel like I should finds something not so similar so that my dress stands out more. Any thoughts? Here's a pic of my dress and a bridesmaid dress I like. Too similar?



18 Comments

Latest activity by OG Ruth, on September 18, 2014 at 9:55 AM
  • Kathryn
    Super December 2014
    Kathryn ·
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    My dresses aren't that familiar I have a strapless dress with a lot of beading and a overlay that splits down the middle of the dress... Its just easier if I show my dress...

    http://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_A-line-with-Chiffon-Split-Front-Overlay-V9010_Bridal-Gowns-Shop-By-Price-Bridal-Gowns-$200-$399.99

    I'm just taking the removable straps off.

    Now my bridesmaid dress looks like this...

    http://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_Sleeveless-Short-Mesh-Dress-with-Side-Cascade-F15612_Bridal-Party-Bridesmaids-All-Bridesmaid-Dresses

    It might be a cute idea if you have "similar" styles, so it looks like its a coherent look. As long as they aren't wearing a colored version of your wedding dress, having similar styles look great!

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  • Rebecca
    VIP June 2015
    Rebecca ·
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    No one is going to mistake your BMs for you Smiley smile They're not *that* similar - and there's nothing wrong with the dresses 'echoing' the general style of your dress... even if you choose a belt, it will relate the two dresses, but won't be the same - theirs will be plain, yours will likely have decorative aspects. I think they look really nice together!

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  • MrsLaguna
    VIP April 2015
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    I don't think any bridesmaids dress will look remotely close to a wedding dress. The style might be similar but you can't compare the two. You will stand out no matter what.

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  • LyssaKay
    Expert November 2014
    LyssaKay ·
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    Mine look nothing alike except for the fact that they are long haha. I really don't think there is any way your bridesmaids dresses will distract or take away from your dress. You will be in white and you will be glowing! Smiley smile

    If thats what you are drawn towards, go with those!

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  • Finally mrs.jkr
    Master June 2025
    Finally mrs.jkr ·
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    I don't think that it will take away from your beauty/attention at all! No one will think that they are the bride and you are not Smiley smile.

    Mine personally, are very different. I didn't want them to have the same neckline as mine, and I wanted them to be short. but both dresses have lace Smiley tongue

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  • OMW
    Master August 2013
    OMW ·
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    The poster above me is a vendor, by the way - flag her!

    My wedding dress was tea-length ivory lace. Theirs were cocktail length cameo/pink lace. The lace and shorterness was it.

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    I think you made great choices. You've chosen dresses that are sleek and sophisticated. They compliment each other and follow a theme, but there is no doubt which dress is more impressive. You're fine on this.

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  • Caylin C.
    Master August 2015
    Caylin C. ·
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    I think you're fine. Yes, they are similar, but it makes for a very cohesive, sophisticated look.

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  • KarenM
    Master November 2014
    KarenM ·
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    Our dresses are both strapless and full length, but the similarities end there.


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  • SweetestLeslie
    Super October 2014
    SweetestLeslie ·
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    My dress is long floor length chiffon, one shoulder. My bridesmaids and maid of honor's are short sweetheart neckline satin dresses. Only one that's similar to mine is my Matron of honor. her's is a one shoulder satin short dress.

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  • J <3 B
    Devoted August 2015
    J <3 B ·
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    Thank you everyone!

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  • kaylarae
    Master April 2015
    kaylarae ·
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    My BM dresses are absolutely nothing like mine

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  • Jess
    Master May 2015
    Jess ·
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    I don't think there's anything wrong with having the BM dresses echo yours. If it's what you like, go for it.

    My BM dresses don't "match" my dress, but they do have some similar features so I think they kind of coordinate. My dress is a strapless mermaid with ruching and a sweetheart neckline. Their dresses are strapless, short, and ruched with a sweetheart neckline.

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  • FinallyMrsW
    VIP October 2014
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    I think if you like the look of coherence that is perfect! It definitely does not take away at all from youSmiley smile

    My dress and bms dresses are so different I have questioned that. Theirs are one shoulder tulle and mine is lace capped sleeves. I hope mine works!

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  • FutureMrsZottola
    Master July 2015
    FutureMrsZottola ·
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    Not similar at all. The firs pic is my dress, 2nd pic is my BM dress, and 3rd pic is the BM dress I wanted but everyone said it was too similar Smiley sad




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  • Maltese
    Master June 2015
    Maltese ·
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    My dress is lace and tulle and the bridesmaids are chiffon...I was thinking about lace dresses for them as well, but too many different body types for it too look good.

    I did see this photo from the wedding a friend went to a couple years ago where the bride DID put the girls in something similar to her dress and thought it looked very nice


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  • Maltese
    Master June 2015
    Maltese ·
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    Double post

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  • OG Ruth
    Master October 2015
    OG Ruth ·
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    My dress & BMs dresses are strapless & chiffon. That's where the similarities end.

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