So I'm not exactly sure what an honorary bridesmaid is, but I think I get the idea. If someone can explain that and give advice, that would be great:
My roommate was originally going to be my fourth bridesmaid, but she has a bit of a track record for backing out of things last minute. Mostly small stuff, but I don't want to stress out about it. Also, she and I have been fighting a little bit lately. Before I got engaged, I told her she would be in it, but nothing official, I guess. I was wondering what exactly an honorary bridesmaid is, what she does, etc - and I was thinking of maybe moving her to that and asking a different friend to fill her place. I do want her to be in the wedding, and every friendship has bumps, but I don't want to make rash decisions. I'm getting married in October (Halloween!!), and need to decide soon - but if things don't get better between us before I need to decide, I'm not sure what to do.