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Grooms Pie?

Kimi k., on December 21, 2010 at 9:41 AM Posted in Planning 0 19

So, my FH is NOT a fan of cake...but he LOVES pies. He said he would be ok with a grooms cake b/c that is tradition....but isn't the grooms cake about the groom? Smiley winking

So, I thought about getting 3 of his fav pies and setting them on different level tiers as his 'grooms pies'.

Thoughts? Ideas?! Help!

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Latest activity by Kimi k., on December 22, 2010 at 11:34 AM
  • Hayley C™
    Master March 2008
    Hayley C™ ·
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    It is nice of you to think of him and what he would like to eat. Some of the "charm" of grooms cakes are that they are decorated with a theme centered around the groom. My only thoughts are if you are going to be able to decorate the pies with a "theme." Are you thinking of having them at the wedding on the cake table or sweet table. Or are you thinking of having them at the rehearsal dinner? Again, very nice of you to think of him.

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  • K
    Master April 2012
    Kimi k. ·
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    I'm all about being a trendsetter! lol!

    I'm not real concerned about a theme for the groomscake...neither is he. I want to have them 'posted' near the wedding cake so people know it's his version of the 'groomscake'. Everyone that knows him, knows he doesn't like cake! Our wedding theme is a country vintage style, so I thought 'homemade' pies would be cute....

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  • Maui Bride
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    We are thinking about using cheesecake instead of cake so why not pies instead of grooms cake? Smiley smile The catering company can decorate the cheesecake to look like a wedding cake. I say do it!


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  • K
    Master April 2012
    Kimi k. ·
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    Ooooh, I like that idea Miss Maui Bride!

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  • K
    Master April 2012
    Kimi k. ·
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    Bump

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  • Sheila
    Master May 2011
    Sheila ·
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    We had thought about doing pie instead of cake. so i give you a gold star on the idea! LOVE IT!!!

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  • Heather
    Super September 2011
    Heather ·
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    It's his cake (or in this case pie). My friends son loves pie so that's what they always have for his birthday. The day is all about you guys so do what you want!!

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  • *Makin' Plans*
    Super March 2011
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    I was thinking about doing the exact thing, Amy! My FH LOVES chess pie so I was thining about doing one of those and maybe a blackberry pie too... something like that. Smiley smile He's not a big cake eater either...

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  • Jazleen
    Expert November 2011
    Jazleen ·
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    I have never once been to a wedding where tehre was a grooms cake, is this just the norm in some areas?

    i say if he wants pie, get him the pie. make him happy it is for him :-)

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  • K
    Master April 2012
    Kimi k. ·
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    Thanks girls!!

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  • Tracy
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    Tracy ·
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    @Jazleen- I think it's more of a southern tradition, but don't quote me on that.

    And NO!! You MUST have CAKE!! (lol)

    Seriously, do whatever he likes. There's no sense in having cake if he doesn't like cake. I've been to a wedding where the groom's cake was one of those large cookies, it was a huge hit. I personally began wanting to do a doughnut cake, because I don't like cake much. But I've been convinced with the offer of a blueberry sponge cake. Mmmmmm

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  • K
    Master April 2012
    Kimi k. ·
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    Giggles, thanks, now I'm hungry! Haha!!! I like the idea of a big cookie too!! Such good ideas girls! Thanks!

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  • Mrs. Kline (Sass)
    Master December 2010
    Mrs. Kline (Sass) ·
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    I had groom's banana pudding. It was a huge hit. My oldest cousin actually came over to thank him for having banana pudding since its one of her favorite foods lol. Do what makes him happy.

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  • Tamara
    Devoted October 2012
    Tamara ·
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    Go with the pie. Our grooms cake is going to be cheesecake because that's his favorite. Whatever makes you both happy.

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  • Ruthie Turner
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    Hi Amy,

    I just did a commitment ceremony where the couple had pies instead of cake. It was beautiful and of course different. Take a look at the pictures on my website.

    www.costadelsolweddings.net

    Best Wishes,

    Ruthie

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  • Carleen Burns
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    I have seen both the cheesecake and pie ideas. Go with what you love!

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  • S
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    SuchaDiva ·
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    I love that idea. My fh isnt a fan of cake either. I am actually doing a cheesecake.

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  • K
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    Kimi k. ·
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    Thank you girls!!! I feel much better about my idea! Smiley winking

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