we are for each other is a photography team based in new york city. we are an engaged lesbian couple, and we love creative, colorful, joyous weddings.

des is the photographer of the duo. she loves music, is an avid suicide prevention advocate, and spends her spare time reading lyrical fiction or fluffy celebrity memoirs.

katie is the artistic coordinator. she will make sure you are polished. she will pose you and keep you at ease on your big day. she is also a licensed massage therapist and body hair removal connoisseur (we offer her services as an add-on to our package). she loves animals, bad fiction and tv (equally and unabashedly), and fried food.

our basic package starts at $3,000. please don't hesitate to inquire with us. we'd love to share your special day with you!

photograph by matt miller

since feeling is first
who pays any attention
to the syntax of things
will never wholly kiss you;
wholly to be a fool
while Spring is in the world

my blood approves,
and kisses are a better fate
than wisdom
lady i swear by all flowers. Don't cry
—the best gesture of my brain is less than
your eyelids' flutter which says

we are for each other: then
laugh, leaning back in my arms
for life's not a paragraph

And death i think is no parenthesis

- e.e. cummings