Your thoughts - last minute invite

Um absolutely not. You're not even good enough for dinner?! Hell no.

ETA: this is your best friend's mom and you weren't invited from the start? Is that not weird?

Does the bride know her son invited you?

Nope! i wouldn't go.

Nope. Pass.

That sounds shitty. I'd pass.

HARD, HARD PASS.

Yes, she said he could tell me and my boyfriend that we could come

Skip it, you don't know if his mother knows her Son invited you it is like borderline wedding crashes material.

So rude. I wouldn't go.

So basically they just want you to come hoping you'll show up with a gift in hand

Umm, that's a big NO from me!

His girlfriend is my other best friend, so I asked her to make sure, and she said that his mom talked to her too, and she did say it was fine

I would pass. In the US, invite to dancing but not dinner, never acceptable. Last minute, only if unusual situation (like you came back from Afghanistan).

It's really up to you. If you think you will enjoy time there...go.

I won't go out of obligation & I think a gift is optional.

Nope, I wouldn't go.

If I didn't have any other plans and there was a chance for some cake and a cocktail, I'd go. I wouldn't bring a gift or anything though.

Honestly, I don't even like his mom. I don't like her fiance either. I might just go because I will get to party with my best friends who i never see. They both live in other states.

She didn't invite you in the first place, so I wouldn't go. I would feel like I'm crashing.

Pass ! That sounds shady!

It seems like they didn't have it in the budget to include you but your best friends wanted you to be there. If I didn't have plans, I would go but I probably wouldn't bring a present.