Writing vows

If you are concerned about one of you writing really short vows and the other writing long vows, then talk about style and length together prior to writing them. Before writing mine, I watched videos on YouTube of weddings where the couple wrote their own vows and my fiance did the same thing. I also looked up sample vows. In my vows, I included a little bit about meeting him to when I fell in love with him, then reasons why I love him and lastly promises.

I never thought to look up youtube videos, thank you

Our wedding is this Tuesday and I just wrote my vows yesterday lol. My FH and I talked about length before starting. We also discussed whether it was okay to be funny, personal, etc. I looked up ideas on Pinterest that help you outline them and then looked up some examples to help guide me so it would flow well. I wrote about 3 drafts of it before I got what I wanted.

Hey Renee!! Writing your own vows sounds daunting but in the end, it's totally worth it because it makes your ceremony totally about you as a couple. And who knows you guys better than each other?!

I searching in the ideas section for some articles that might help you structure your vows or give you a little inspiration where you need it. Here is what I found, I hope it's helpful to you!

The Wedding Vows Template You Totally Need (Admit It)

Writing Your Own Wedding Vows? 4 Ways to Beat Writer’s Block

7 Questions to Ask Before Writing Your Wedding Vows

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Thanks so much! That was very helpful!

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I'm so happy they helped!!

Good luck with writing your vows!!

Do a Google search for vows and use as a starting point. Make them personalized from there.

View Quoted Comment Great idea. Thank you 😊