Would you trust your fh to plan your wedding?

I love him to pieces.

He comes from a family of not-planners. When I ask him to take over something planning-wise, I have learned it has to be a simple thing. Otherwise... let's just say tears are shed, curse words are used, and things go badly.

Definitely wouldnt want him to plan it all by himself. He wants to make buttons and signs to put in the grass that are election logos with our last names since we are getting married in election year
He also suggested on the invites that we individually design each one for each family so that there is a chexk box for each person invited....yeah no

I definitely would. My husband bought a house and I didn't see it until the day of the inspection. I told him to surprise me and I loved it. I would think he knows your preferences so it should work out. Good luck.

My guy is a worrier, and doesn't have great self esteem. He also gets very stressed about money, so I think he would struggle through the process.

I definitely want him to be equally involved in the planning though. He's very thorough and logical, but he's incredibly sweet, romantic and ingenious.

If he had an idea that I considered to be too out there, we're good at compromising, so I reckon we'd find something that would make us both happy.

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It was perfect for when we butted heads! I'm in marketing, and my hubby is in show/event production so we had some STRONG ideas of how our events would go. lol. But I will laugh that as much as he jokes that I would spent all our money if we won the lotto (uh, no I wouldn't), HE exceeded our budget a lot more than I did because he wanted a perfect event. lol.

Oooh, if your guy is handy, he could make some great decor for your wedding! Glad you both like humor and quirkiness--seeing "personal" things a wedding--from decor to food or music is my fav! Sometimes, guys just want to take care of the music and food but don't care as much about decor. How about your man?

Absolutely not! My FH didn't even realize we needed flowers... I asked him to help me work on organizing tables and he said "wait, you have to do that?". I had so much on my plate that I sent him a list of 25 things that needed to get done last month and he legit called me and said "holy sh**, I can't do this!". I think he is good at picking out the food, alcohol, what he is wearing and that's about it haha

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Yes! Same girl, same

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My guy is a manual labourer by trade, and he has made a side table before now.

I don't know how interested he would be in decor, but he is creative.

He definitely has his own unique style in both writing and drawing.

Naturally, I think he's a genius.

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Aw! So sweet. Good to know he may be able to help make some DIY stuff if needed.

My hubby built some amazing pirate props from scratch: treasure chest, ship mast, etc. When he wanted to make a chest I said no because I didn't want it to look cheesy. I had no idea the mad skills my man has! Seriously blown away. He made these:

hubby made this

and this (mast with cannonball hole)

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That is so cool. Nice work!

That skull would likely appeal to my man. He has rather dark tastes...but then he also likes cats in clothes...

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LMAO!!!! OMG this is my man, exactly!!

Btw, we still don't have an officiant, and no idea what the guys are going to where.

View Quoted Comment Our officiant is his best friend and our DJ is a work friend; so he’s in charge of that.
I went with him to MW to pick out suits because he has absolutely no taste.

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He wanted to play all of these God awful nerd songs during the reception. I said no one will dance to that lol.

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When discussing wedding themes my hubby would have also wanted Haunted Mansion but that's a bit too dark for me even if Disney dark. lol.

Wa ha ha. That's a good one. Seems like something my hubs would send me.