Would you trust your fh to plan your wedding?

Well the reason he's not planning really now is because when I asked a theme he wanted to do hanna barbera. As in Scooby-Doo & The Flinstones. Which I admit was cute. However, I didn't like it for our wedding. Which is why I took over most of the decision making.

Mine is picking the theme and the menu and all that stuff. The only reasons he's not doing emails is because I have all the money and he's super disorganized

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I have a suspicion that my FH would go for an Alien themed cake like this :

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No better than me. I originally wanted something like this:

Oh my god no. He’s the one who wanted a wedding yet he doesn’t want to do anything or spend any money. He has yet to do a single thing he was supposed to do (get addresses, pick a dj from choices provided, look at tuxes or get groomsmen gifts). I’ve done literally everything else.

This is the same man who can’t even make a doctors appointment by himself. 😂

Yes, he has gone to all of our meetings and helped make decisions, but I’ve done all the research and planning. We agreed that he would be in charge of his guys and coordinating with the officiant.

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After I told him I felt sad planning our wedding day by myself, we brainstormed theme ideas over a bottle of wine and my hubby was then 110% committed. So much, we made me CEO of our DW and he was CEO of our local reception. When we couldn’t agree, the CEO of that event won the decision. 😆

It was great that he also understood my pain of flaky vendors, venues with attitudes & the crazy cost of everything.

If planning wasledt up to my husband, he would have taken a day off work to take me to the court house, he may have even made a dinner reservation (it probably would have been made the morning of, ha!)
he didn’t want a wedding and is not a planner. The fact that he put so much planning into the proposal meant a lot to me 😊
he did go to meetings and listen to my ideas, but at the end of the day I made almost every single decision. Although he did plan out the rehersal dinner now that i think about it.

Absolutely Not!! I love mh FH but he and I have completely different taste plus if he had his way in planning our wedding ... We would be getting married at the paylake n our theme would be camo.. So yeah nope. I love me some fishing n camo but not for my wedding.

Oh heck no AHAHAH
My husband wouldnt save us as much money as I would have.

Oh lord no. I’d end up with some obscure video game or anime themed fiasco, probably lacking food, drinks, an officiant, something.

Absolutely 100000% no. Lol!

FH has honestly planned 50% of the wedding. I’ve mostly just been in charge of budget, and making sure we stay on top of it. I would have 0 problem handing everything over to him
and letting him plan the whole thing. We basically both want the same thing and have the same vision.

The only reason I'm not letting him plan 100% of the wedding, he's in the banquet industry so he knows what he's doing is because I'm an anxious person so his timeline for doing things is far slower than mine is outside of that we have all the same opinions and my parents are the ones I have to keep out as they keep offering to pay for things we didn't want in the first place.

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This is a great idea. CEO of each event. Genius way to get you both equally involved.

I have been thinking of something similar. Divide and conquer the tasks to be done. Preferably playing to our individual strengths.

My guy is a manual labourer and has run his own business before, so he would certainly have knowledge and skills that I won't have.

We do have similar tastes, and we're both romantic individuals who like unique quirky things. Humour and silliness will have to play a part in the overall event too, as well as rock music.

I have told him that his main job is to keep me grounded, and not let me run away with my imagination.

View Quoted Comment Oh lord mine would love that cake.

He would've booked everything over the phone, not gone to look at any of the venues, and probably get us in some type of legal trouble (permits, vendor licenses, etc) and he would've regretted it the moment we walked in the door.

My fiancé said flatly “I love your style and I have none, just tell me what to pay for”...lol. Music to my ears. But I’ve included him in as many ways as I can by having him pick desserts and songs. However, when I try to include him he gets easily stressed with all of the options so he’s been trying to do sweet things through the entire process consistently thanking me for doing all the work so he didn’t have to stress. Haha

Nope nada no way because of his personality, he would come up with some off the wall stuff and I would have to take over and replace everything. Lol!