Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Would you rather? Wedding Edition

Lynnie, on March 21, 2018 at 3:11 PM

Posted in Community Conversations 224

It's would you rather - wedding edition! We'll give you two situations, and you tell us which you would rather deal with on your wedding day. Ready? Here's your first question: Would you rather have no wedding party, or have a 30 person wedding party? Photo by Emily Blake Photography in LA Next...

It's would you rather - wedding edition! We'll give you two situations, and you tell us which you would rather deal with on your wedding day.


Ready? Here's your first question:

Would you rather have no wedding party, or have a 30 person wedding party?


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Photo by Emily Blake Photography in LA


Next Question: Would you rather... forget your vows or forget your rings?

224 Comments

  • Kim
    Savvy October 2024
    Kim ·
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    Hmm it might be fun having 30 people in the wedding party. I figure the more the merrier, as long as they're all helping yo make the day more special what's the harm lol
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  • Laura
    Champion June 2010
    Laura ·
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    No wedding party! We only had one on each side anyway, so that wouldn't have been a huge difference.

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  • H
    Beginner April 2018
    Holly ·
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    No wedding party! We really aren’t having anyone, and it’s been a great decision.
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  • Denise
    Expert June 2018
    Denise ·
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    Definitely none!!! Even 5 has been overwhelming lol.
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  • 2019Bride
    Dedicated June 2019
    2019Bride ·
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    None, skip it!
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  • LaraLouM
    Super May 2019
    LaraLouM ·
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    OMG 30 is so many! I would go with nine haha!
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  • M
    Super August 2018
    Marta ·
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    None! 30 is too much and too more things to worry about
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  • H
    Just Said Yes June 2018
    Heather ·
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    Definitely None!
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  • Kaylyn
    Super May 2019
    Kaylyn ·
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    Jeez no party for sure
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  • #beautyandthebeard
    Dedicated October 2019
    #beautyandthebeard ·
    • Flag

    None... too many people to coordinate!

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  • O
    Master October 2017
    O ·
    • Flag
    None.
    We ended up with only one person in our wedding party b/c I felt it would be too mean to tell my 11 year old SIL we no longer wanted a wedding party.
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  • HoneyImGallone
    Devoted November 2019
    HoneyImGallone ·
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    Oh wow ummm... probably none honestly. I am already planning on having a big wedding party and I can't imagine who I would add to get to 30 lol.
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  • S
    Beginner September 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    No wedding party, 30 is way too many!
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  • Liana
    VIP March 2017
    Liana ·
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    None. 30 sounds like a lot.

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  • M
    Beginner November 2018
    Melanie ·
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    None! I wouldn't even know that many people!!
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  • FutureMrsR-M
    Expert August 2020
    FutureMrsR-M ·
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    I would go with none. 30 is so many people to manage. But between my FH and I, we could fill up a 30 person wedding party and then some with siblings and first cousins. We both have big families.

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  • B
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Briana ·
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    I would rather have no wedding party and forget my vows. The thing about a large wedding party is that not only can that become expensive, but it can create problematic situations and drag out the wedding due to the number of announcements being made and the number of people that have to walk down the ailse. If I forget my vows, I can always just say from the heart how I feel about my FH and make a vow to love him for the rest of my life and substitute in the traditional vows.
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  • C
    Dedicated May 2018
    Cora ·
    • Flag
    No wedding party
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  • ThePeoplesBride
    VIP October 2020
    ThePeoplesBride ·
    • Flag
    None!
    I know HUGE wedding parties can be cultural thing with most of them being family but come on! I don't have close communication with 15 people on a regular basis let alone 30!
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  • N
    Dedicated June 2019
    Nicole ·
    • Flag
    No wedding party.
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