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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Would you rather... plan your wedding in three months or three years?

Lynnie, on March 21, 2018 at 3:12 PM

Posted in Planning 185

Last question!! Would you rather have only three months to plan your wedding, or be planning for three years? Hope you had fun answering!! For more posts like this one, check out: Are you innocent or guilty? , Are you into it or over it? , and Splurge or Save?

Last question!! Would you rather have only three months to plan your wedding, or be planning for three years?


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Hope you had fun answering!! For more posts like this one, check out: Are you innocent or guilty? , Are you into it or over it? , and Splurge or Save?

185 Comments

  • Trilby
    Dedicated July 2018
    Trilby ·
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    Definitely 3 months. As much as I'm loving aspects of wedding planning, I am so much more excited to be married!! Can't wait Smiley smile

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  • R
    Beginner August 2018
    Rachelle ·
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    Tell me how!!

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  • PrincessLawrence
    VIP June 2018
    PrincessLawrence ·
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    3 years, which I have been and there are times I wish it was here already and other days not so much

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  • Kee&He
    Super May 2018
    Kee&He ·
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    I would take 3 months over 3 years. I am in the final 45 days and ready for the planning to be over. To have the planning take over my life for 3 years would drive me insane. I have been planning for over 18 months and realize how much time we have spent planning.
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  • FutureMrsB
    Savvy August 2018
    FutureMrsB ·
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    3 years!! I've really enjoyed the planning process!

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  • Bianca
    Super August 2019
    Bianca ·
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    3 years! 3 months goes by in the blink of an eye (wedding planning-wise) and I think I would have major anxiety about the wedding.

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  • Shay
    Dedicated March 2018
    Shay ·
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    We got engaged last March had some up and downs but actually planned are wedding in about 2 months. It's work but not too bad if you have a vision and stick to it. Don't try to do an extravagant wedding with attention to detail in a few months. But something simple can be just as beautiful with the right support and dedication.
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  • Jen
    Super May 2018
    Jen ·
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    3 years. I don't think I would be able to get all the vendors I wanted with only 3 months and I wouldn't want to settle.

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  • Sally
    Expert June 2018
    Sally ·
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    Three months for sure we are ready to be married. We booked the venue a year out and then I didn't really start planning until 5 months out, I could easily do it in 3.

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  • Michelle
    VIP September 2018
    Michelle ·
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    3 months, I am NOT patient enough for year(s). We have a one year plan and that’s hard enough to wait for
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  • Sexy Fashion Cactus
    Savvy January 2019
    Sexy Fashion Cactus ·
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    3 months! Even spending a year planning (what we're currently doing) feels so drawn out to me.

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  • Sarah
    Master June 2016
    Sarah ·
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    3 months. My first engagement was just shy of two years, and H and I were engaged just over a year. Both felt way too long.
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  • Lauren
    Expert June 2019
    Lauren ·
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    Three months and keep it as simple as possible.
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  • Vanessasaurus
    VIP June 2019
    Vanessasaurus ·
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    Originally I'd have said 3 years but now I'd probably say 3 months! We are having a 2 year 3 month engagement and since we are ready to get married, it's just a lot of unecceasary waiting.
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  • Stephanie
    Super March 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    3 months... getting everything done in 7.5 while teaching full time has had its difficult moments, but I've never felt rushed. I've also felt like I'm ready for it to be over with, so I can't imagine what 3 years would be like!

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  • lindseybee89
    Expert June 2018
    lindseybee89 ·
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    3 Months, I could do that totally
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    3 months. 3 years sounds like a really long time plus we both wanted to be married before we start our family which we want to do sooner rather than later.

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  • M
    Expert July 2018
    Melissa ·
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    3 months. We got engaged in December and started planning late January for a wedding in July. I'm pretty much done with everything and now I just have to wait until the wedding day.
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  • M
    Dedicated September 2018
    Marissa ·
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    Haha this is a hard one. I just booked the venue yesterday and we have a little over 5 months until our wedding. Part of me would say 3 months because 3 years would be way too long of a wait, but on the other hand it is super stressful planning just in 5! We almost didn’t get our venue because everywhere was already booked. We got lucky because there was a cancellation.
    I guess all in all I would choose 3 months if I had to choose one.
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  • FutureLadyH
    Devoted May 2018
    FutureLadyH ·
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    Three months. We're planning ours is less than 4 months. Even though it's a bit intense, I think 3 years is alot. I'd probably go way over budget constantly adding stuff to fill the time. Smiley tongue
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