So my FH has four kids and I have one kid that is 14. FMIL was here the other day because she wanted to take his two boys for clothes - so she asked to see what they have already. We were in basement and I had a hamper of my stuff and a hamper of the girls ( my daughter and his two girls ). She said I’ll just take these hampers and wash it all at home and bring it back. I said no it’s ok I’m trying to get my daughter to do her own for an allowance. And also she borrows my stuff constantly so half of my stuff is in their hamper. I said I’m real particular about my clothes - I said I don’t dry anything. She ended up taking the boys hamper and coming back couple days with it.
I happened to be out an appt and she randomly showed up at the house- my daughter was there. She took the hamper .. ( which had a bunch of clothes of mine ) she also moved my bathing suit off a shelf I had it on.. and put towels there. I came home and saw a load of clothes washing on warm.
I called my FH and said can you please handle this !?? I don’t want my clothes being transported or my daughters. It’s weird. Well she came back with hamper and was sooo mad. Now she won’t speak to me. I texted and explained how I’m just particular with clothes etc. but she’s not replying. Idk Is this weird ? She also takes the kids clothes home that don’t for them and stores it there for the next one .. not sure why we can’t keep them ?