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Amber
Savvy October 2020

Why Not Both???

Amber, on September 26, 2019 at 9:44 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

So, I am having both a Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor, is that weird? I want them both to have a place like that. (one has just gotten back to where we are back in touch, been friends for over 10 years. She was out of the country kind of thing, very difficult to talk sometimes, and the other...

So, I am having both a Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor, is that weird? I want them both to have a place like that. (one has just gotten back to where we are back in touch, been friends for over 10 years. She was out of the country kind of thing, very difficult to talk sometimes, and the other has been around for a good couple of years and has been acting in place for my Matron) I have four girls all together. Two married, two not. All of them are really good friends and are important to me but these two are more than the others. I have been told by some of my friends that this is weird, and for others, they thought it was great! But I want opinions that aren't biased. What do you think?

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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated November 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    I have two maids of honor and FH has two best men, because he has two brother and I have two sisters ( my brother is also a groomsman and his sister in law is a bridesmaid, so it all worked out). It was never even really a question for us how we would do it.


    The only thing to consider is who signs your marriage license - one of my sisters is only 16 so it'll be the older one by default for me, but he’s having a harder time with it.
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  • Aleaj
    Expert October 2019
    Aleaj ·
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    Not weird at all! It’s actually very common, they’re two different roles. They’re both someone you’re close to, one is just married. I have a matron if honor and two maid of honors. I couldn’t choose btwn my sister and bestfriend of 20 yrs. Its your wedding, so what you want!
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  • Garnise
    Beginner February 2021
    Garnise ·
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    Not weird at all I’m having both , maid of honor and matron of honor. It’s all about you do what makes you happy.
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