Why am I not excited?!!

Don't worry I'm 29 days away and feel the same. We'll get there.

Mine didn't come until a couple weeks before the wedding. It never seemed close enough to get excited for. It really hit me at the rehearsal and then I got super excited. don't worry it will come. It's hard with all the planning and stress to let yourself get excited but your day will come :-)

Why are you assuming people are going to be rude? I actually think this is really normal. It'll hit you when you're wearing that dress and saying those vows!

I have a little longer than you do to go, but it hasn't quite hit me yet either. I think when we go get our marriage license that will be a thing.

How long is your engagement? Ours will be just about six months, it's felt fairly busy always doing or thinking something wedding-related without a lot of down time. So maybe busy doesn't help?

Take this weekend off and don't do anything wedding planning related, don't talk about it, try not to think about it. Just focus on other things in your life and do something for yourself.

Sometimes it just gets overwhelming and I think stepping back and taking a break for a weekend or week will help recharge you!

I was the same way for 2months its being wedding wedding.Not going out saveing money for the wedding. Stressing out not slepping good at night.Felling so tired not knowing if it was really worth it.But on Wensday i went to try on my dress its been custome made. Thats when it hit me am getting married! Felt so exited love my dress its a dream come true.Since it was my B-Day FH took me out to dinner didnt talk about the wedding all night..It was just about us..so come on April 23,2016

Hope yoy get exited soon good luck!

It's stressful and a crazy

time in your life. Have some wine and some yoga and don't wedding plan for the weekend

"Feeling married" or "like I'm getting married" didn't really happen until I was reading my vows to my husband. I had another surge of happiness after the wedding eating cake on our bed, and again in the morning when we had breakfast with our friends.

Maybe you just aren't a huge "party" person. I'm really not, so the event itself didn't really get me amped. The marriage part (vows) were when I had my moment.

Don't worry about what this board or what bridal shows make it seem like it "should" be. We all have a different experience. As long as you are focused on the reason, that's all that counts. You may or may not have a moment before the wedding. It might come before you walk down the aisle, it might come when the night is over.

"Feeling married" or "like I'm getting married" didn't really happen until I was reading my vows to my husband. I had another surge of happiness after the wedding eating cake on our bed, and again in the morning when we had breakfast with our friends.

Maybe you just aren't a huge "party" person. I'm really not, so the event itself didn't really get me amped. The marriage part (vows) were when I had my moment.

Don't worry about what this board or what bridal shows make it seem like it "should" be. We all have a different experience. As long as you are focused on the reason, that's all that counts. You may or may not have a moment before the wedding. It might come before you walk down the aisle, it might come when the night is over.

"Feeling married" or "like I'm getting married" didn't really happen until I was reading my vows to my husband. I had another surge of happiness after the wedding eating cake on our bed, and again in the morning when we had breakfast with our friends.

Maybe you just aren't a huge "party" person. I'm really not, so the event itself didn't really get me amped. The marriage part (vows) were when I had my moment.

Don't worry about what this board or what bridal shows make it seem like it "should" be. We all have a different experience. As long as you are focused on the reason, that's all that counts. You may or may not have a moment before the wedding. It might come before you walk down the aisle, it might come when the night is over.

MrsHunter I kind of feel like that a lot too. People will ask me questions and after a few I just kind of feel over it, over planning it, over talking about it! I just want it to be here! I'm worried people will think I'm not excited to marry my FH! I am! I just think it doesn't feel/ seem real yet. Hopefully after my shower and bachelorette and once it's actually May? Good luck these next few weeks!

I totally feel this way sometimes. I've had a 1.5 yr long engagement and I just sometimes want the wedding to be here and gone. I live with FH and have been for over a year so I've been more than ready. You're not alone, I totally feel you.

Might be tough since you're working so hard ON the wedding you're not able to fully enjoy it. Maybe you just need to get over the stress hump and that giddy feeling will hit you soon.

Give it some time. You will most likely feel more excited when it gets closer and more things fall into place. Try not to put expectations on how you should be feeling. Everyone's experience is unique.

I feel guilty because I just want to get it over with already. I try to take time off but then something pops up I need to handle and I can't shut my head off. I should be so excited but the fun isn't there anymore. And then the guilt hits.

Planning is stressful! There's no reason to feel guilty because you're feeling a little distracted and overwhelmed. Once the day comes, I'm sure you will be ecstatic!

I agree with all the stress it's hard to feel excited. I think maybe the day before if you are having a rehearsal will make it exciting again. It means you are so close and everything is done. I think most of the excitement dies once invites are sent and your RSVPs are over with.

Hi date twin!!

I think it's perfectly normal to not feel excited, or have the wedding feel "real" at this point. All of the excitement, for me anyways, is clouded under a pile of stress and never ending to-do lists. I don't think it'll truly feel real or exciting to me until the wedding day!

Hang in there.. you'll have your moment.

Hi Ladies!!

THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!! You all have no idea how much I need too hear all of these kind words and have so much support. I have been engaged since December 2014 so I just feel like its been forever. I'm so ready to get it over with and stop talking about floral arrangements and linen colors. Lol.

I wish I would have written this sooner because you ladies have truly made me feel ten times better!! Thank you again!!

@futuremrsgreenfield.... Hi date twin!!

I didn't really feel excited until the Thursday night before the wedding. Between last minute details, work, a death in the family I was really distracted. It really h itme Friday morning when my MOH drove in and our rehersal was that night. What you are feeling or rather not feeling is totally normal.