who throws the bridal shower and when do u do one?

~~~ MOH and Mom

What if my mom isnt in the pick the moh

I dont think I am having any of the parties. All of my BM's and MOH are in four different states. The only two of my briedesmaides that even know each other in in Texas and that would be really hard to plan for a wedding in Rochester New York. I would just be happy to get the wedding situated first. And because my BM's all live in different states I am doing the plannig on my own as well.

Sorry I dont mean to sound B****hy I am just overwhelemed tonight.

Hey same here trust me.... so u dnt sound bitchy....lol

Thank you I am sitting here trying not to cry tonight so I dont want to sound bitchy on top of that. LOL

Whats going on why u wanna cry? trust me i almost took off my fh head and middle school kids lol.... he had to dj and im his helper lol

I am just really upset about the date change and I know I should not be I know that will work out in the end. My biggest thing I am really stressing about is finding a venue. I am just panicing and letting it get to me I guess. I am just really weepy tonight and that is sooooo not like me. I even cried when I saw that video that someone posted about the save the date thing. I thought it was great and cried. My emotions are all over the place tonight. I think some of it is because I am not working due to health issues with serious migraines and I feel really guilty that I am not contributing with finances. Maybe I would feel better if I just sat here and cried for a bit.

I am so happy I have a place to go and talk to other women that are going through all this and understand what I am feeling. FH tries to understand but he is a MAN and thinks he has to FIX everything and not just let me cry and whine a bit. I LOVE HIM soo much but sometimes you just need to whine and cry ya know.......

Hey im in the same boat. so i do whatever i can which gets me crazy with emotions and everything. were trying to find a venue so we can make our date more solid. but i love my date and dnt want to change it. just me my fh gets made because i get on his case about everything cause were on a budget and we need to figure everything out since we are the only ones paying for our wedding. at times i feel like im the only one that cares and everything like that but then i understand where he is coming from. if we cant get more business then there might not b a wedding which makes me cry even more.... so i totally know where your coming from. ever since we got engaged its been a roller coaster of emotions.

I cry when i see peoples wedding pictures videos and sappy songs lol for no reason and my fh looks at me like really why are u crying

My the women in my bridal shower have been more than helpful. It usually be the MOH overall, but all my ladies are getting together planning. . . . . I THINK I MIGHT BE IN TROUBLE! J/K they all are fun and loving (I just hope they remember that) LOL

Lol i wish my girls didnt live so far!!!!

Madison...I am totally in the same boat. We are paying for most of it too and on a very tight budget. His mom is going to help as much as she can. I also get on Fh case which I know I should not but I too feel like he dosent care sometimes. He upset me tonight when he kinda yelled at me for asking him to help with some address again. He said I had been bugging him for three days, but he was not getting the addresses I needed and they are his relatives. I guess I could call them myself but he can help too. Like I said I am very weepy tonight so that did not help matters. I feel better talking about it even though I know it is my emotions. Thank you for listening.

No problem anytime!!!!! thats what this is for!!!! my gosh ur fh sounds just like my fh...lol