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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who said "I love you" first?

Lynnie, on May 7, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 137

Who was the first person to say those 3 little words? Who said "I love you" first? Photo from Nicotra's Ballroom in Staten Island, NY Next Question: Where did you go on your first trip as a couple? Back to the Beginning: Firsts!

Who was the first person to say those 3 little words? Who said "I love you" first? Smiley heart


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Photo from Nicotra's Ballroom in Staten Island, NY


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Back to the Beginning: Firsts!

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  • L
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Laura ·
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    He did way back in 2007

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  • Crystal
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Crystal ·
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    I did. We were cuddling while watching Jeopardy! and I snuggled in a little closer and said it. I was half asleep and my honesty bubble just went into I have to say this now mode.

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  • Jennifer
    Dedicated September 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    He did about 6 weeks into dating. I brought him to a friends party and it was the first time he was meeting them. I accidentally got drunk and we slept at my friends house. I said "you must hate me" and apparently he responded with "no i don't, i love you". I passed out and he went back to the other room to hang out with my friends. He says he went in there and was like "uhhh i just did something" I woke up the next morning and was thinking, did he say that or did i make that up?

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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
    ALYSSA ·
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    Oh, this memory is blurry. I think I did, but he said it back without hesitation.

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  • Hannah
    Dedicated June 2020
    Hannah ·
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    I think I did. But saying it out loud and seeing it in someone's eyes are different things haha. I think I definitely said it first because I saw it in the way he looked at me. I wouldn't have said it if I didn't know he felt the same way. I think it was pretty early into us dating as well, maybe 2 or 3 weeks in? We moved kinda fast haha.

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  • Whitney
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Whitney ·
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    I did. We were laying in bed, pretty early on into dating. I said Hey Ryan, So....i think im maybe in love with you. We both busted out laughing. He said well I think I love you too babe.
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  • Amber
    Dedicated June 2019
    Amber ·
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    He did! I was soo apprehensive about him. He told me he loved me before we were "official". But we both just kinda knew.
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  • Jpbride2B
    Dedicated October 2019
    Jpbride2B ·
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    Technically, I was the first. But I do think he said it months prior on a late night call while we were both sleepy and he thought I was asleep... but we'll just say me. I said it a month after our first date, but I had been in love with him for 6 months before that day. We "friend-dated" a long time before officially dating and I was already in love with him.

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  • Alyrae
    Super February 2020
    Alyrae ·
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    I think it was me haha
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  • SraDeCarrillo
    Super August 2019
    SraDeCarrillo ·
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    He said it first. That was probably the first time in my life that a man had said he loved me before I said it. We weren’t even dating for long. We were long distance on the weekends at that time and ended up on the phone together every night.

    So on this particular night, he was back home for the weekend and went to have drinks with the fellas and he calls me drunk from inside of a bar somewhere to tell me that he loved me. I of course didn’t believe him but, I thought it was cute that he was drunk and still wanted to speak to me. Later that week when he was back in my town for work, he told me he loved me while sober. I think it took me a weak or two longer to say it back.

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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    I did! It was about a month after we first started dating while we were cuddling Smiley heart

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  • Dedicated September 2024
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    He did! Only two weeks after we started dating.
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  • thisismrsb
    Expert June 2019
    thisismrsb ·
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    According to me:

    "I fell in love with him first, but he said the actual words first."

    According to him:

    "I did, but she hinted at it with the subtlety of a sledge hammer. Lol."

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  • Cassandra
    Beginner October 2019
    Cassandra ·
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    He did he slipped he had been saying I like you for about 3 weeks and then one night it slipped out.

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  • Jasmine
    Beginner August 2019
    Jasmine ·
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    He did....In August of 2015 neither one of us can remember the exact day. But we do remember I said it back on 1/1/16.

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  • L
    Beginner September 2019
    Lauren ·
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    We was standing on a balcony watching mother nature while holding on to each other sharing the view together. I looked at her which she seemed to be glowing with beauty. I looked into her eyes and told her that I love you. She blushed while smiling then said I love you too.

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  • L
    Expert June 2019
    Lori ·
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    He did first!
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  • Ashley
    Just Said Yes October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    I did! We had been dating a month. I was on spring break from college, and we had a big snowstorm and got snowed in together. We had a great week! When it was time to go back to school, I was giving him a kiss good bye and blurted out 'I LOVE YOU', I turned bright red, tripped on a rock and got in my car and drove away before he could say anything. Smiley xd

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  • E
    Beginner May 2022
    Eri ·
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    He did first
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  • Expert August 2020
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    I did and he didn't know what to do. He did not expect it.

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