Who said "I love you" first? You or your fiancé(e)?

He did. I didn't expect it and it didn't take me too long to officially say it back.

He was the first one to say it over the phone

He did.

He and I met, as a blind date October 1, 2011 in Upstate NY. I was about to have surgery mid November and as I was going back for the surgery( heavily drugged mind you & wearing No jewelry) he said “Don’t worry, I’ll be right here. I Love You!”
I was like “OMG OMG OMG! He said he loves me!” And the nurse was like “Of course he did honey, he is your husband after all.” And then I was going “Noooo, you don’t get it...” and all of a sudden she did! “Is that the first time he’s said it?” “Yes!!!!” I replied and the next thing I knew I was waking up to him sitting in the chair in recovery.

7yrs later we are engaged( finally!) and getting married September 19, 2020.

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The classic, "thank you" response, love it! I'm sure he was excited to hear you say it back that next week!

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Totally understandable, did you say it back right after he said it?

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Awww so sweet!! Where did it happen, out on a date or at home?

He said it first

I did. It kinda slipped

He said it first.

We both said it very quickly (and I felt crazy for falling so fast) but he said it first.

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Aww I love it! How did you say it asleep, were you dreaming and it came out?

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That's awesome!! Sometimes it's better to just let it out and see how the other feels!

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Lol, that liquid courage!! Did he say it again in the morning?

View Quoted Comment Hahaha he did. But I was mad at him so I ignored him all day.

He definitely said it first but it was before we even started dating

Me - just over 7 months into dating (right before he left to go back to school after his Christmas break)!

He did,and I finally said it a few days later

FH was determined not to say it first. He kept telling me whenever I was ready, he would say it back, but that he would not say the words until after I had. He did say it in sign language, though. Which still very much counts to me. But I ended up saying it the first night I stayed over at his place right before he fell asleep.

He did say it first it didn’t take him long hahaha

I said it first