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Sunni
VIP May 2016

Who planned their wedding in 8 months or less?

Sunni, on October 27, 2015 at 7:08 PM Posted in Planning 0 46

It seems that most brides on WW have 14+ month engagements. FH and I are planning one in eight months, but it's for ~65 of our family and closest friends, which we think will make things easier.

For those of you on shorter timelines, do you regret it? Why did you choose a shorter engagement?

46 Comments

Latest activity by BartlettToBe, on October 29, 2015 at 10:53 AM
  • Mrs. Kassy
    Master June 2015
    Mrs. Kassy ·
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    We planned our wedding in about 8 months. We had a longer engagement, but didn't start planning immediately.

    We booked our venue and got my dress about 8 months out. Photographer about 7 months out. Everything else was done in the last 6 months.

    It really wasn't hectic or hard at all. Just get the main vendors ASAP and most other things fall into place.

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  • M
    Super August 2015
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    We planned our wedding in 8 months with about 60 people. It was perfect for us and I don't regret it at all!

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  • Crystal L.
    Master August 2015
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    We planned ours in 9 months! Our engagement was one year, but we didn't start planning til about 9 months out! I just went online, and sometimes to Jo-Ann fabrics or other stores, and bought items based on the budget that I had given myself for monthly wedding purchases, and made sure that I kept everything organized, and I used an app called wedhappy. Everything turned out great, and I was glad that I was finally married and all the craziness and spending was over...LOL!!

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  • KGroenwold
    Super October 2015
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    I planned our wedding in 7 months =)

    I regret some parts of a short engagement. We were together for 7 and a half years before we got engaged. I didn't want to wait too much longer to be married. We both wanted a fall wedding so bam that gave us our date. I mean the nice thing about having a longer engagement is having more time to save for things. The time goes by so quickly that it almost doesn't feel real when you get to the 30 day mark. The last 3 months seriously went by in a blink and suddenly you're getting married in a week. We ended up having 140 people at the wedding. I wish we hired a DOC but it just wasn't in the budget. Just to help with how the day flow went. We also had my DHs Oma in the hospital but that isn't something you can for see. I don't regret the short time line but there are certain things that I wish we could have worked into the budget that just wasn't possible.

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  • OG Mrs.K (2.0)
    Master September 2014
    OG Mrs.K (2.0) ·
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    We did it in 6 months, 65 guests.

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  • Happily Married
    Super August 2015
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    We planned our wedding in 5 months.

    I totally DO NOT regret. I think i would have drove myself crazy planning any longer then we did really. We had a very simple wedding, with about 50 people. We did the big planning at the very beginning, and the rest as we had time/money. I did a lot of research/shopping online.

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  • SwoleMates2016
    VIP January 2016
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    We started coming up with rough ideas in July but didn't start booking anything until we were engaged in September. We will be married in January. Everything pretty much done until we can send out invites. I'm so glad I didn't start a year or two out. I would be so over wedding stuff by now, ha. If you already have money saved, have a good idea of what you want, and you don't live in an area that stuff books up super fast, it really doesn't take that long. Heck I could have done it in less time. Seriously, now I'm just sitting around twiddling my thumbs.

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  • MrsTex
    Super October 2015
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    We planned ours in 9, for 200 people. It was crazy but we didn't want a long engagement.

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  • Sunni
    VIP May 2016
    Sunni ·
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    OMG ChristineKyle1115! I've seen you post in the forums but can't remember the deets of your wedding except that it's small. Please share!

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  • D
    Expert November 2015
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    I started planning in mid July and get married in 12 days, so just about under 4 months. I don't regret it.

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  • FutureMrsForte
    Devoted February 2016
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    We are doing it in 7 months for about 120 guests! i have had no issues booking vendors or running out of time for anything! absolutely no regrets! i would regret pushing the wedding back even more because i am ready to be married! we would be married sooner but i did not want to have a wedding anywhere near the holidays!

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  • onawho
    VIP August 2015
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    I had actually planned and laid deposits with vendors within 2 months of getting engaged. I was going in to my 2nd semester in my grad studies and DH ....well is a boy and was not really "into" planning a wedding. And I wanted to get the bulk of the planning and foundation done before I started my studies.

    I picked out, paid for and lined up all of my vendors then had to wait for school to be over. Our engagement was a year not because we wanted a long engagement, it was because of the day we picked (height of the Perseids meteor shower).

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  • Kiri
    Expert September 2015
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    We were engaged for 8 months but planned the wedding in about 5. It was for 60 people, and we figured we could do it in time Smiley tongue . Everything turned out fine and the wedding was exactly what we wanted!

    It probably helped that our date was in September, so the vendors we wanted were not booked full yet. I imagine if you're getting married in a more popular month, you'd have to start looking earlier.

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  • Gonefishes
    Super May 2016
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    We're getting married a year to the date of our engagement. I wish we would've chosen a sooner date. There's too much anticipation and the longer we wait more rules and junk gets added. We have all of our vendors booked and I have my dress at home. So now I'll just wait.

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  • Ostrichka
    VIP February 2016
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    We got engaged in July and will be married in February, so a 7-month engagement. We picked an off-season date which means we pretty much have our pick of vendors even with a short planning period. One of the first things we did was hire a planner to eliminate a lot of the initial groundwork and research, and so a lot of the smaller details as our wedding approaches will just be handled. Im glad we chose a short engagement--can't wait for the wedding and to be married!!

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  • OMW
    Master August 2013
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    7.5 months, 115ish guests. No problem. I liked the short engagement.

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  • aew
    Expert September 2015
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    Planned ours in 6 months with 85 guests. The day was perfect! I do wish I would've had more time to plan and save money for extra stuff. Really though that is just money I would've spent, that wasn't needed.

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  • Rebecca
    Master November 2015
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    Ours is an 8 month engagement and the wedding is an invite list of about 200. If anything I wish it had been less time. I booked the major vendors and had a guest list very quickly after getting engaged, and it's been pretty smooth sailing since then.

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  • FormerUser
    Master July 2015
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    Our engagement was only six months long (but we've been together for 11 years!)!

    I loved having a shorter engagement for a few reasons:

    1. We're married!

    2. We didn't have time to change our mind on things, and went with our original plans.

    3. Our short engagement meant that our marriage happened before some people on social media even realized that they weren't invited. We kept our guest list very small, and when people posted wedding pics on FB, we got a lot of "Wow, yay, already?" instead of "Hey, when's the wedding and where's my invite?!"

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  • Kelli
    Master September 2015
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    We planned our wedding for 50 guests in 6 months. No regrets! We were engaged for 16 months before we set a date. Then in March decided we wanted a fall wedding. There was no big lull and no time to rethink things which we liked. I can't imagine stretching it out over 2 years!

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