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Kimikat
Expert September 2015

Who pays for the day after brunch?

Kimikat, on August 10, 2015 at 9:25 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

My FH and I are going to one of his co-worker's wedding. Today we received an email invite for the morning after brunch. The email read the following: The happy couple will be having brunch at 10 am at the hotel cafe. If you wish to join them for brunch, please let MOH know by Wednesday for head...

My FH and I are going to one of his co-worker's wedding. Today we received an email invite for the morning after brunch. The email read the following: The happy couple will be having brunch at 10 am at the hotel cafe. If you wish to join them for brunch, please let MOH know by Wednesday for head count purposes. The cost of the brunch is $19.95 per person.

I don't mind paying in the least. I was just curious, is this the the norm?

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  • Emily O.
    VIP June 2016
    Emily O. ·
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    I don't really see a problem with this. Could it have maybe been worded a little better? Yea, but I wouldn't call an evite a formal invitation. This also isn't something that your presence has been requested at and is totally optional. If a guest doesn't want to pay for brunch, then they can skip out.

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  • A&T1216
    Super December 2016
    A&T1216 ·
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    I wouldn't consider this a formal invite, so I don't have an issue with it. I am guessing that they need a head count to reserve a space at the hotel. If it was a more formal invitation, then I would that the bride and groom/ family should pay.

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