Who made the first move?

We were in high school. He reached out to me on Facebook but on our first date I made the first move on the kiss 💋

My FH, 100% lol

He messaged me on Tinder first (yeah, modern-day love story I know, try to control your tears haha). He asked for my number first. Asked for a date. Went in for the hug first, and the kiss lol He also said "I love you" first. Poor guy, he's just been makin' all the moves around here I guess I better step my game up after the wedding haha

He did .... We met in high school and I was hugging one of my friends and he came up to me and her and asked if he could have a hug too and I said sure because I thought he was cute. Then we started talking in the mornings before school .... then finally got his number and it all fell into place 4 days later we started dating.

I just logged into my closed OkCupid account to print out of dating profiles for my friend who's giving a toast at our Hindu wedding. Found our initial chat from May 2016 and it was totally me!

FH started talking to me first, but I was the one who was like "are we gonna do this or what?"

It depends what you mean by first move. He asked me out. I made the first physical move.

He did! We met at work, but didn't actually get together until 6 yrs later. Now we're inseparable.

My maid of honor and another friend made the first move lol! I was very mature and would not admit that I liked him, but I did tell MOH that I had a dream about him at my new job, I must have been missing him at my formerly full time now part time job (publix) lol. She worked with me at both jobs along with him and this other friend. Everyone told me he liked me, but I didn't believe them. So, MOH and another friend had to lock themselves in a bathroom at a party to call him at Publix because I kept hanging up the phone because I was mortified. They told him I liked him and he should come to this party. He came to the party after he got out of work and we've been together ever since. The host actually kicked us out so he could go to sleep and we stayed outside talking for hours until I finally tried to leave thinking he was never going to kiss me, then he did lol.

Somewhat related: MOH also had the idea to set up the friend who helped call with a guy from our new job and I got his number and gave him hers, they're married like 4 or 5 years now lol. Started dating 6 months or a year after FH and I, our 11 year anniversary is right before the wedding.

He says it was me lol. I was leaning pretty close hoping for a kiss

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Benefit of the online dating world- you have a record of these things! How sweet!

FH did. My friend told me her friend was looking for something serious and vice versa. Once he found me on FB he messaged me asking me out on a date.

Loaded question. We met years before but the timing wasn't right. Kept in touch, reconnected at a camp felt a spark, then I invited him to a bar to watch my band play.

He did. We met at a football party, and we exchanged numbers as a joke. But then he sent me a text asking me on a date

Honestly I believe I made the first move. We worked at best buy and I was new there. I worked at the register and he always passed me by to get his keys. One day I just said hey and everyday our conversations got longer.
Our first kiss was at his parents house in their backyard we were on a swinging chair talking so much and I said "you wanna kiss me dont you?" and he said sure. Hahah to this day he says he does not remember wanting to kiss me he was just interested in our conversation. Lol

I say FH did, he says I did! We worked together and weren't supposed to date coworkers so it was kinda sneaky at first.

She did 😊

He did. Got my Snapchat username off the dating app we were both on. I had several guys add me and had decided I wouldn’t say anything unless they said something first. He watched my stories for a couple months before he said anything and when he finally did it was so easy to talk to him. Which was hilarious because 3 days before he finally said something I had decided to stop dating for awhile. He quickly changed my mind on that. However I kissed him first so there’s that 😏

FH definitely made the first move. We met online and had talked but I really wasnt that interested. I agreed to meet him for coffee and we had a good time but I really wasnt feeling anything. I politely declined a second date but he kept messaging me and just trying to keep up conversation and learn more about me. Then he convinced me to go to karaoke with him and it changed everything.
I'm so glad he was persistent. He is the perfect man and I cant imagine my life without him!

We met on Okcupid. He sent the first message but I was the one to suggest we meet in person.

I did. But Matt proposed.