Every bridal shower I've ever been to has been hosted in collaboration by the bridesmaids, the mother of the bride, and most times the mother of the groom. So I've always thought it was pretty standard for everyone to work together on the planning and split the costs as well.
My mother texted me asking if she was allowed to throw me a bridal shower, which of course she is allowed, I would never deprive her of that experience. I did mention however that I would send her my bridesmaids' phone #s and my future mother in laws number so they could help her with the planning because they all want to be involved as well. When I mentioned this idea she got super mad at me because it's "her right as a mother of the bride" to throw the bridal shower.
So am I wrong?