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Melanie
Expert June 2016

Who drives who to the ceremony and reception?

Melanie, on May 23, 2016 at 10:27 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 12

Hi,

For some reason my parents have this crazy notion that they would like to drive me from the ceremony to the reception after photos are taken.

I can understand TO the ceremony but isn't the bride and groom supposed to ride together to the reception? Is there some old tradition I'm missing? I've let them know I'd rather ride with my FH but I wanted to see again, if there's something I'm missing.

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Latest activity by OG Kathryn, on May 23, 2016 at 2:00 PM
  • mimitrue
    Master January 2016
    mimitrue ·
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    I have never heard of a tradition like that. I would politely decline and enjoy the alone time with your new husband on the ride over to the reception. Smiley smile

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  • nautiwife
    VIP July 2016
    nautiwife ·
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    I've never heard of that. It sounds like your parents want to spend some time with you or maybe are having a hard time letting go. I'd ride with your hubby.

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    Do they want to drive you alone or you and your groom?

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  • Melanie
    Expert June 2016
    Melanie ·
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    It's a DW but FH and I are renting a car for the 4 days we are in town. I'm the baby so yes they are having a very hard time letting go. My wedding is a real turning point for them. My MOH's bday is the same day as my wedding too and they keep on asking if I want to come back to celebrate that after the reception and I'm compromising by celebrating it with her after the rehearsal dinner.

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  • Melanie
    Expert June 2016
    Melanie ·
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    @Tina- no just me. I've told them gently No though.

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  • Belle
    Super May 2016
    Belle ·
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    I rode with DH from the church to the reception. Before that, I drove my bridesmaids to hair and makeup and then to the church, we got dressed there, then one of the bridesmaids drive us from the church to pictures and back.

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  • Melanie
    Expert June 2016
    Melanie ·
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    @Belle we are doing something similar except we are getting ready at my parents' house. Our church wanted us to get ready in the children's nursery- tacky imo.

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  • Sam
    Super October 2016
    Sam ·
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    I would think you would ride with your husband to the reception. Our ceremony and reception are at the same place so we don't have that issue. I'm driving me and my dad to the ceremony in my mustang since we both love mustangs. We're just gonna pull up to the aisle (outdoors) then walk on down the aisle.

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  • Soon2BMrsB
    VIP October 2016
    Soon2BMrsB ·
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    I would think you could drive with your husband. I'm sure they don't mean negatively by it. I'd just thank them for the offer, and that you'd love to go with them to the ceremony but after that you would like to ride with your husband. I can't imagine a reason for splitting you up after the ceremony is over.

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  • Kristy
    Master November 2015
    Kristy ·
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    I could see if they wanted to drive you AND your brand spanking new hubby! But just you? nah... You will want to be with your man! Cute and funny of your parents Smiley smile

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  • Liz
    Super March 2016
    Liz ·
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    My parents drove me to the ceremony- rode with my husband to the reception.

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
    OG Kathryn ·
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    Yeah no thanks.

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