Who do you feed??

Some venues offer different options: ours offered sandwiches (yuck), family style spaghetti or the same buffet meal we had. I chose the same buffet meal because it was the right thing to do--they're working hard to make your wedding nice! But our venue didn't offer a discount on vendor meals as some venues do, we paid same price.

Anyone who is staying for the whole thing

Feed all of your vendors! Real food. They appreciate it.

Everyone who is staying for the whole reception. If you're having a photobooth don't forget the attendant(s)!

Everyone who's at your party.

I fed my DJ and photographer and his assistant.

I am feeding photographers, dj, and dj's wife if she decides to come. (DJ isn't really a "friendor, but I do know him and he's traveling 2 hours to my wedding and not charging any travel expenses, so his wife is 100% welcome imo, I would feed him regardless)

Gotta feed everybody. Some venues offer discounted meals for vendors; mine unfortunately doesn't with it being $69 a plate *sad face* Oh well!