Hello all we have to postpone our wedding date to may 15 2021. Due to Covid and my dress being late shipped to me and other Covid related situations. Our original date was July 11, 2020. We informed his family as well as mine and HIS family just blew us off about it (the original date). They all said they cannot come because of getting time off jobs and money issues.
We announced our engagement on Facebook on June 29, 2019 his family never responded or congratulated us at all.
We understood because we are getting married in a different state but in a way I was upset because BOTH of my parents are deceased and his dad is deceased he mostly only has his MOTHER, but he wasn't upset at their response which was "NONE" he stated that's how his family is. My FH doesn't deal with his family at all most of his life and now still. I used to try to get him to involve them but he says they are toxic and he would rather NOT deal with them at all.
Well tonight his MOTHER calls and talks to him she is asking about when, where are we getting married and he tells her we postponed because of COVID. We postponed 2 months ago we never told them because he didnt want them involved. She starts telling him how she hasn't heard from him in a while, also hinting that he didn't call for mother's day. She then ask how about the wedding and she says "OH i know the day is coming up how are you guys doing"? So he tells her we postponed it until May 15 2021 so she says "Oh since that's the case she will save up to come". She then mentions how other family members also want to come. He tells her "I thought you guys weren't interested in coming at all".
She says that not the case at all. She states "Oh I would not miss that i would not miss it and she would regret not making it". So he told her he would have to talk to me about it she says ok. So now I am wondering should I do this or is this crap that she and the rest of his family is trying to impose?