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Savvy July 2022

Where does this thought actually come from?

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Misselis, on April 20, 2021 at 5:12 PM

Hi dear ladies, I started a few weeks ago a topic about marrying someone who has been previously married. It started to bother me for no reason while I never made a big thing of it. Maybe it's because things are coming closer and more serious.. It could be a combination of my emotions and stress....

Hi dear ladies,

I started a few weeks ago a topic about marrying someone who has been previously married.
It started to bother me for no reason while I never made a big thing of it. Maybe it's because things are coming closer and more serious.. It could be a combination of my emotions and stress.

Are there ladies in the group who can relate? Who has been married a divorced man without kids? I'm wondering if you've been through the same 'struggle' ..
I know it will make me stronger at the end, but I keep blaming myself for this stupid thought of being a second wife .. while I was always positive.

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Master August 2021
Jasmine · on April 22, 2021 at 1:22 AM
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I've been married once before but this will be my fiance's first. At first he asked a couple questions for his sanity but he's never dwelled on it. I say be present and enjoy the love you two now share. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about otherwise you wouldn't be where you are.
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Savvy July 2022
Misselis · on April 22, 2021 at 7:02 AM
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It is really something mentally.. that the girl shares also the title of “wife” but as an ex
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VIP October 2022
Samantha · on April 22, 2021 at 8:54 AM
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This is something you are going to have to come to grips with. You don’t have a time machine, there is nothing he can do to “fix” this.
You really need to did deep and discern if this is the issue, or something deeper that is harder to face.
If it truly is that you don’t want to be “second wife” and it will eat at you forever, that’s not a good way to start a marriage. This isn’t a trait he can do anything about, it’s something you have to learn to live with.
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