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Katlyn Constance
Savvy June 2016

Where do I seat my Bridesmaid's date...who doesn't know anyone?

Katlyn Constance, on May 21, 2016 at 2:00 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 46

What do I do? My best friend lives in Indiana with her sweet boyfriend, who only Josh (Fiance) and I know. The night before the wedding, he will be helping Josh and the other groomsmen get food around. Day of the wedding, where should I seat him? With people I think he would have fun with from work,...

What do I do? My best friend lives in Indiana with her sweet boyfriend, who only Josh (Fiance) and I know. The night before the wedding, he will be helping Josh and the other groomsmen get food around.

Day of the wedding, where should I seat him? With people I think he would have fun with from work, or with the groomsmen at the other side of the head table?

I don't want to break up the look too much, but it would even things out.

Would that be weird?

46 Comments

  • MrsToBe-BecameMrs
    VIP September 2016
    MrsToBe-BecameMrs ·
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    We are doing a kings table and all bridal party members will be sat next to there dates

    BM /DATE BM /DATE GM/DATE

    FH/ME

    GM/DATE GM/DATE GM/DATE

    ^^ Thats the best I can explain it. We say it a thousand times on here... Just because your friends/Social circle does something a certain way does not make it proper etiquette. Please seat couples TOGETHER.

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  • Elyse
    Master September 2015
    Elyse ·
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    All of our BP were couples, not sure why some people think that's weird?? Whatever. We did a sweetheart table and it worked out that the BP all had their own table.

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  • H
    VIP March 2017
    Hammie ·
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    This is the exact reason we're doing a sweetheart table and not a head table with the BP. Two of our bridal party have significant others not in the party so we wanted them to be able to sit together for dinner. When I went to FSIL wedding, FH was a groomsmen and I essentially couldn't get near him half the night because he was at the head table and I was at a table across the room. It was quite annoying, even if I was sitting with people I know. I highly suggest doing a sweetheart table and letting your bp sit with significant others and/or their families.

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  • Rachel
    Super August 2017
    Rachel ·
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    I just attended a wedding this past weekend where I was a bridesmaid and FH came all the way from Texas to be my date. He didn't know anyone (but is super outgoing thankfully) so I introduced him to my friends and he sat with them for the ceremony. It was pretty casual, I never sat at the head table, because I felt like it was rude that FH bought a plane ticket out here and I left him with my friends haha. Bride didn't care. One of her bridesmaids is married and he ended up sitting in my seat at the head table to be next to his wife (I think he was also there and didn't now many people). For this reason I will be having a sweetheart table.

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  • MNBride
    Master June 2017
    MNBride ·
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    Your best man is the Caterer? Yikes! Sounds like you have bigger problems than the head table.

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  • LaToya
    Expert June 2016
    LaToya ·
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    Honestly we have sweetheart table and then a head table. We have the SO of our bridal party siting together. We didn't receive any complaints about it. It is only for the dinner portion.

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