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Just Said Yes July 2016

When life gives you lemons...

Kristy, on March 30, 2016 at 7:19 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 18

My future husband and I have gone through a lot in the past week. He was diagnosed with a brain tumor and has had a brain biopsy to see what treatment is best. Of course his health comes first but now the date we set on July 9th has some changes to be made. We already sent out our wedding invitations and have to now tell our guest that we will be married earlier than July because of unforeseen circumstances. The venue has to be change to more low key area and the food menu will change too. All of what we put on the invitation has to be resent out with new information. It seems so frustrating but honestly all our guest are close family and friends so it shouldn't be hard and we don't have to fully explain all things personal to anyone. We just wanna be honest with our guest and of course give them new location in enough time. I want the guest to know we are married and getting through all this together. Can anyone help us word this new revised invitation with humor and happiness?


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Latest activity by Kristy, on March 30, 2016 at 7:27 PM
  • Almost a Mrs.
    VIP December 2016
    Almost a Mrs. ·
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    This might be cheesy but since you're moving it to the spring time, you could just play off of the "When life gives you lemons.." Quote by adding "We make lemonade!" To it. Possibly serve a few different types of lemonade at the reception.

    Eta: I feel like this would get the point across while still implying that it's still a celebration. This could also make it easier if you're changing from an evening wedding to an afternoon one. It feels very whimsical and light hearted to me.

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  • Ellsy62
    Master October 2017
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    I don't have any advice on the wording but I'm so sorry that you guys are going through this. Sending prayers and hugs your way. Best of luck with all the tests

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  • Lauren17
    Master July 2017
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    Sorry you are going through this... sending positive energy

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  • FutureMrs.G
    VIP June 2016
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    I'm so sorry you're going through this... Sending you good vibes and I hope the tests come out well. I do like what Almost a Mrs. suggested - even if it is a little bit cheesy Smiley winking I think it's sweet and will let your guests know the situation while still making light of it (not sure if that's the proper word choice here, but I think you get what I mean - you're still trying to celebrate this happy time in your life while being aware that there is this situation).

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    "When life gives you lemons...

    ...We invite you to enjoy our lemonade!

    We will be married on xxx because of unforeseen circumstances.

    The venue will be xxx with a casual menu.

    Please join us in a low key celebration of our love and life."

    eta: Best to the both of you!

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  • Princess Consuela
    Master November 2015
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    I'm so sorry! Wishing you guys the best. I love Tina's wording.

    (And because I can't let it go, the plural of guest is guests!)

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  • LoveInDC
    Master November 2016
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    Sending positive vibes your way!

    I'm sure everyone will be understanding. I also agree that the lemonade theme would be cute and go along with the casual, fun atmosphere you're going for.

    Please keep us updated!

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  • K
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    Kaitlyn ·
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    Tina's wording is fantastic! I am sorry for what you guys are going through and hope all will be well. I did want to say it is refreshing to see a bride who is pushing up her wedding the right way, and not running to the courthouse and get married, but not tell the guests and play dress up with a fake PPD. This is proof that it can in fact be done, you will have a beautiful wedding and you will not lie to people.

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  • Holly
    Master February 2017
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    Have you considered not moving the celebration, but eloping beforehand and explaining to your guests why? It might be less stress for you guys (and it sounds like you have plenty).

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  • Nancy Taussig
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    Can you get married now and keep the original date for a reception/celebration?

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  • c_h_a_r
    Expert August 2016
    c_h_a_r ·
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    I'm sorry to hear this and hope that you receive nothing but good news in the future!

    I love the wording Tina gave Smiley smile

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  • K
    Just Said Yes July 2016
    Kristy ·
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    Wow!!! I just have to say Thank you for all the ideas and encouraging words. I can not wait to go home from work to tell him I wrote about us and the positive feedback we received. Absolutely like the lemonade idea because that's our personalities and what fun right?! Our wedding is country decor anyway it fits perfect!!! Thank you again really have no idea just how much better my day has gotten .

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  • M
    Devoted June 2016
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    A close friend of mine has an inoperable brain tumor. She has had it for years now. She always says, "You are supposed to count your blessings." Perhaps you could send a new invitation counting your blessings. You and your FH have each other. You will love and support each other every step of the way. Your guests will follow suit and celebrate your happy union.

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
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    So sorry to hear about your FH. Best of the best luck to you both.

    My brother Mike was diagnosed with Stage IV glioblastoma at 23. Sadly he passed 18 months later but he fought like a mofo.

    All I can say is live your life without regrets and make your wedding special. And you may need to keep your date flexible - I know first hand how swiftly brain cancer can change and how it's treatment affects patients. I won't lie: it was very very rough on my brother.

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
    Punkin Beer ·
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    You may want to include the color grey. It's the brain cancer ribbon color. Maybe in lieu of favors, donate to a brain cancer charity.

    http://m.orientaltrading.com/grey-ribbon-a1-90000+2197.fltr

    http://www.braintumorcommunity.org/site/TR?fr_id=2652&pg=entry

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  • SAD
    VIP March 2016
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    I love the lemonade idea! I think that's a very clear way to announce the changes while still keeping it upbeat.

    Non-wedding related, I am very sorry you and your FH are going through this. You sound like such a strong couple, though, and are handling this incredibly well. My best thoughts and wishes to you both!

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  • Margaret
    Super August 2023
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    So sorry to hear this **huggs**

    Tina, as always... winner winner on the wording idea

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  • K
    Just Said Yes July 2016
    Kristy ·
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    I really sorry about your brother Punkin Beer ! And we will do our best to keep positive but also keep in mind that it could have been worse for us. We will think of your brother in those tough times when we think we have it bad. Thanks for the advice .

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