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Laura
Devoted October 2016

When are there too many activities?

Laura, on October 9, 2016 at 10:48 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 37

We went to a lovely wedding last night - lots to eat, open bar, all the good stuff! In addition to drinks and dancing they had a photo booth, "casino night" set-up, ping pong, board games (Jenga, Scattergories, etc.) and raffles (tickets earned by winning games not by giving money). It was...

We went to a lovely wedding last night - lots to eat, open bar, all the good stuff!

In addition to drinks and dancing they had a photo booth, "casino night" set-up, ping pong, board games (Jenga, Scattergories, etc.) and raffles (tickets earned by winning games not by giving money). It was incredible and I was very impressed. But no one was on the dance floor at all, gals who wanted to dance were prying their guys from the casino. The crowd wasn't very big, and with all the activity in different rooms, everyone was dispersed and separate.

Curious as to what people's thoughts are on the number of activities at a wedding? Such a thing as too many?

37 Comments

  • Meghan
    Super October 2025
    Meghan ·
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    I'm getting married in a pretty conservative church with a much older crowd, I honestly don't expect my guests to want to boogie on down too much, so I'm going to have games and mad libs, cads about matrimony and other alternatives to dancing.

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  • ShortStack
    VIP June 2017
    ShortStack ·
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    That sounds likes a lot going on. The venue we are getting married at has a big tent with a patio on each end. The tour guide was saying the the front end is where the older crowd usually hangs out, there are fire pits and comfy patio chairs. The back patio is the younger crowd. They provide giant jenga and cornhole. We aren't having a super formal wedding, so I figure those two are ok. We are doing a photo booth as well, but that is all.

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  • Phylicia
    Super April 2017
    Phylicia ·
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    All I care about is dancing.. no on the games

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  • MrsDrum
    Master June 2017
    MrsDrum ·
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    We are going to have outdoor Yahtzee and cornhole but only during our outdoor cocktail hour. If it rains cocktail hour will move inside and we will skip them.

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  • Krista933
    Super July 2016
    Krista933 ·
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    I've never heard of that many activities.

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  • Jenna
    Super October 2016
    Jenna ·
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    I could see having a lot of games if you were having a backyard barbecue wedding and not planning on dancing so you needed something to keep people hanging out, but all that at a wedding would make me lose focus on why I was really there.

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  • S
    Master January 2017
    SnowQueen ·
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    To me there is never too many, but none of us are big dancers.

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  • Maggy
    Super December 2016
    Maggy ·
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    I think at an evening wedding especially, games are not appropriate. Drinks, dancing, and conversation, maybe a photo booth is plenty.

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  • Steph
    Super August 2016
    Steph ·
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    When I'm at a wedding I want to dance. Our wedding had bar, dance, photo booth. You can have one thing beyond dancing or drinking. Nothing else. The dance floor needs to be packed.

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
    CMC ·
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    No need for any "activities" beyond dancing and a photobooth, IMO. What a waste of money for a "casino night" (wtf is that doing at a wedding?! It sounds like a program run by a student activities club at a college). As long as you have drinks and an experienced DJ, it will definitely be a good time.

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  • Gracie
    VIP June 2017
    Gracie ·
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    Games are for family picnics, not weddings. I'd be pissed if I spent big money on a dj for nobody to dance to.

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  • Jenna
    Super July 2017
    Jenna ·
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    I personally like games at weddings, I only really care to dance when I'm drinking with friends at a club or something

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  • Swin.
    Master June 2016
    Swin. ·
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    I didn't like dancing so at our wedding, we just ended earlier. That worked better for me. It was a nice classy dinner party rather than a high school graduation night....

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  • Ashley
    Expert August 2017
    Ashley ·
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    Hmmm. We are going to have games but that's only for the kids table. Otherwise the adults better get their booty on the dance floor and get their drink, eat, and mingle on. You feel me? Yes. Ok, good. Smiley smile

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  • Z
    Devoted November 2016
    Zena ·
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    Maybe if anything games at the cocktail hour but I wouldn't have any

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  • soon2bemrs2017
    Super October 2017
    soon2bemrs2017 ·
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    I love activities at weddings because I go to a ton of weddings and just dancing at every one gets very boring. Plus, you'll have those guests that just don't like to dance so they dip out right after dinner. If you're a couple who doesn't care about how many people are dancing at your wedding, then I think having a bunch of activities is fine. With that being said, a lot of people go to weddings and are looking forward to the dancing, so I don't think it would be a good idea to have anything that will overshadow the dance floor. If it's all in the same room or maybe if the casino and more distracting activities were only during cocktail hour then it might be less of an issue.

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  • Private_User804
    Master November 2016
    Private_User804 ·
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    We decided against several beautiful venues because, like your friend's setup, it would have drawn people into separate rooms away from the celebration, and would have made it very difficult to visit with our guests.

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