I'm having such a hard time describing what I want guests to wear.
Here's what I'm picturing - nice dark jeans, slacks, khakis, polo shirts or long sleeve button up shirts for the men. Sundresses, misses dresses, business casual for the women (really having a hard time describing this - pretty much stuff you buy at Anne Taylor or Club Monaco or Talbots).
We have originally been telling people "dressy casual" but that phrase has generated more confusion than anything. Also, our guests come from all sorts of backgrounds and locations, some even from overseas. FI's getting frustrated and just want to send people who ask photos of what we were thinking of. I'm hesitant to do so because I don't want to come off rude or pushy.
