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Jacqueline
Dedicated August 2020

What would you do?

Jacqueline, on May 16, 2020 at 8:33 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 28

So as I am putting our fresh sheets back on our bed and FH is preparing dinner his cell phone gets a ping while on Charger next to bed I am making. As I look over I read the following text he received “she leaves in a week.... not looking for a LOVE match just a nice guy to hang out with.... are you...
So as I am putting our fresh sheets back on our bed and FH is preparing dinner his cell phone gets a ping while on Charger next to bed I am making. As I look over I read the following text he received “she leaves in a week.... not looking for a LOVE match just a nice guy to hang out with.... are you up for the challenge... lmbo” I can’t make this crapup ladies. I took a snap shot of it because I’m sure to have gotten wording all messed up once I confront him. On one hand I want to call him out but on the other I think that had I not read his cell I would be clueless. Perhaps it’s nothing at all and I am playing into what it could be. Let it go because he has never given me reason to be insecure or ask him and see what his response is?

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  • Katie
    VIP August 2021
    Katie ·
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    I'm glad it all worked out
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Wheeeeeeeeeew!!! So glad you addressed it and it all worked out, especially when there were NO signs of any funny business. I know emotions are heightened during wedding planning. And wedding planning during Covid? Forget' a'bout it! Smiley xd

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  • Kerin
    Super February 2021
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    I'm glad you talked to him instead of driving yourself nuts, and even happier for you that there was an explanation that didn't involve a bomb going off for you. People are weird, we all know that, and some mothers are especially meddlesome, too, so while it was very weird, the fact that you could talk about it...and I say that meaning ACTUALLY TALK, just shows the two of you have excellent communication and that is the most important part of any relationship Smiley winking it does happen for a reason, perhaps this one was to make sure you know just how strong the 2 of you are together. Wishing you all the best Smiley smile

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  • Jacqueline
    Dedicated August 2020
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    You are so kind with your words Kerin. We got this!! 👍
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  • Katie
    Expert January 2021
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    Just curious, were you planning to be out of town?
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  • Martha
    Devoted February 2024
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    I would ask carefully, its a difficult spot to navigate, its not like you were snooping. I think it would be best to sit down talk about it and hopefully it is nothing. Best of luck dear.

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  • Jacqueline
    Dedicated August 2020
    Jacqueline ·
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    No I wasn’t going out of town. The Woman’s daughter was here visiting for the week.
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  • Laura
    Super September 2026
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    But... then why would he have to be up for the challenge? I'm hoping this is really nothing. But that part of the message doesn't make sense. I'd keep praying for more information... And I'd want to know that she was a client.

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