What to choose

How fun!

The look you're describing is very specific and I would think you'd know better than us the kind of influences you like within that particular subset of the fashion world, but I kind of like the idea of a really fun suit. I found these, which I think will be too tame for the style you describe, but maybe they will begin to spark some ideas!

View Quoted Comment Thanks for the ideas im thinking of making whatever I choose myself iv been thinking of making a suit with a detachable skirt so I could have both I love the floral patterns and ill think of incorporating them in my look either in the outfit or accessories

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Amazing! Yes a detachable skirt, or maybe some dramatic cape/bow feature would be fabulous.

View Quoted Comment Thanks I was thinking for the ceremony having it as a dress but rest as a suit

I love the idea of a detachable skirt. I’m totally thinking like, Billy Porter in that magnificent tuxedo gown.

View Quoted Comment I have not seen that but I will look it up for ideas thank you

Love it. I say if you can’t decide, get two looks!

View Quoted Comment I was thinking of doing a suit with a detachable skirt

Can I just say that whatever you decide on, please come back and post pictures because it sounds like whichever option you take will be stunning! I also love the idea of a detachable skirt

How about a pants suit with a skirt overlay? That way you get the best of both worlds. Also if u get tired of the skirt you can take it off.

View Quoted Comment Thanks I was thinking of making a suit with a detachable skirt

What about an attire change?

You could wear multiple outfits, or have "convertible" clothing, like a detachable skirt, cape, bow, etc. I love the mix of feminine colors and patterns on masculine silhouettes or vise versa.

View Quoted Comment Thanks I was thinking of a detachable skirt

View Quoted Comment I love a detachable skirt! I didn’t realize what a trend it was until I started looking at the most recent episodes of say yes to the dress for ideas.. which is unfortunately not as LBGTQ+ inclusive for bridespersons that I’ve seen but the concept was of the detachable skirt there was key. Definitel aha moment. Are you going to do custom made? The only foreseeable issue I can think of is hemlines not aligning like jacket to waist ratio but what if you didn’t wear a jacket for the ceremony and your shirt underneath was like some badass billowing top or statement sleeves on a button down or something else that incorporates the tones? I’ve had some wine, I’m feeling dreamy .,sorry for going on and on One of my bridespeople is a she/her lesbian that identifies primarily as masculine and won’t be wearing a bridesmaids dress along with the rest and I’m wondering if her suit should match the groomsmen or if I should get her something custom made. I’m pretty far from deciding those details but it’s important that you and your soon to be both feel your absolute best on your special day and that everyone else can watch the glam unfold or fall off a cliff!

View Quoted Comment Im going to be making it myself in a very lolita fashion without a jacket lots of bows lace and pearls me and my boyfriend calls his side grooms friends because he has non binary people on his side who us most comfortable with a suit there and maybe talk to your friends about a formal jumper if you want im pretty sure we can personal message on here and we can talk about ideas when my outfit is done i plan to post pictures as well

View Quoted Comment Just wanted to tell you I posted an update with inspiration pictures