What should i do?

No no you weren’t negative at all. It was the other person. I’m on your side :-). What is your fiance’s opinion about what to do?

No worries girl :-)

Man I didn’t know about that part. You should tell your friend that he does that and you don’t like it, so because that makes you feel uncomfortable you are considering that he not be invited. It’s best to have that y’all right after it happens. My fiancé had s friend like this towards me and I told fiancé he needed to stop. I ended up going straight to the guy telling him it needs to stop as it makes me feel uncomfortable and was disrespectful to me and my fiancé.

View Quoted Comment Yea we briefly mentioned it to her the night it happened but never talked about it again.

View Quoted Comment Considering that this guy got handsy with me when we have all gone out together, my fiance is not thrilled with the idea of him coming

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If you mean that I am well-versed in wedding etiquette and don't want to counsel people to make rude mistakes that could be avoided, then you are correct.

Just because some people don't agree doesn't mean that they're correct!

Agreed! You’ve got your answer

Oh Sweetheart my darling child. Not everything is black and white or as it seems.

View Quoted Comment I'm well versed in etiquette as well, my question was more a moral question rather than an etiquette question. I tired to be delicate and perhaps it's not that apparent but I don't want to invite me because he touched me inappropriately. And to me that trumps etiquette by a long shot. I posted this discussion because I wanted to hear everyone's opinion and I appreciate it. But I find it hard to believe you would invite someone like that to your own wedding for the sake of etiquette.

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I totally agree with you. From your original post it sounded to me like he just got drunk and loud and you didn't like it which is not a really good reason to not invite someone. But after reading through everything, you absolutely do not need to invite someone who assaulted you to your wedding. I would also be very up front and direct with your friend about what happened and why you're not giving him an invitation. Also I would let your friend know that you're there to talk if she's ever uncomfortable with him doing something like that to her.