One of the biggest lesson I learned from a previous relationship is to never stay with someone for their potential because they could blossom into that beautiful butterfly that you know they can be but they can also choose to remain the caterpillar that they are. As a result of this less, when choosing my life partner I was careful not to fall in love with who he could be but rather I paid close attention to who he currently is.
What are your thoughts? What lessons have you learned from previous relationships/marriages?
