What have you found to be the most difficult part of planning with your wedding?

View Quoted Comment This is me! My FH tried to eliminate some of the stress by giving me his bank card to pay things, but honesty it didn’t help much. I have to do escort cards, favors, welcome bags & they are falling to me. I have explained 3x times why we need meal choice stickers & he still doesn’t understand. Then last weekend we were looking for a cake topper for our RD cake & we came across a $205 cake topper in our likeliness so FH decided to order it, however I had to send 360 degrees pics & confirm skin, hair, eye color. On top of that I had to call the baker & let her know that the cake topper changed. And then FH decided to order a custom dog tux for our dog w/ a custom leash & I had to take measurements - but the tailor was very specific so I had to take pics of me taking measurements of the dog, and so much more!

Definitely the guest list because we chose to do a more intimate wedding. One of the main reasons we chose a DW was so we would not have to pick and choose from so many people😫 And the decision to keep it adult only!

My FMIL. She seems to think this is her wedding 🤷🏼‍♀️. Other than that, just the stress of making sure everything is done and done right. I tend to be a perfectionist at times. I’m sure my planner hates me lol.
I feel your stress in the HMUA though. I did my trial and booked my person back in April. But I’m now stressing that she will do a bad job. Not sure why.

The hardest thing for me was doing everything alone! I moved out of state to be with my husband and I expected his family to be more helpful since they were excited about the engagement and they offered to help. They slowly backed out of everything. My family tried to help a bit but they were out of state until a few days before the wedding. Planning alone in an unfamiliar place was so hard. I had to be in charge of every little thing and then my DOC didn’t show up on the wedding day leaving my family and I to scramble to decorate and do a million other things that I wanted to avoid bring responsible for on the day of.

RSVPs has been the most annoying part of the whole process. I wouldn’t say anything has necessarily been difficult though.

Oh, and dealing with jerks that try to invite theirselves or ask if they can come... 🤦🏼‍♀️