Hey WW family!
So I got a little thing in the mail from Mr. Tux and it has like a list of stuff that the brides family pays for and what the Grooms family pays for. However, it is super outdated and looks like it was last updated in the 70's. So I was doing some research on my finances and seeing what I have paid for, what my parents paid for and what FH's parents have paid for. Here is the break down:
My Parents: $4,000 toward Venue
My parents (my daddy) $2,000 photographer
Me: $4500 for honeymoon
Me: $1,200 for my dress
Me:- $330.20 MUA
FH- $229.32 Flowers
FH- $354.74 Chair covers/table runner decor
Me: $320 alterations
Me: $250 on centerpiece decor
Me: $200 misc wedding stuff
FH- $150 STD
Me and FH- $383.74 invitations (We split the cost in half
That's what I can think of off the top of my head at the moment. His mom contacted me not to long ago and said they wanted to pay for the rehearsal dinner, which I was happy with, but my plan was to have the ceremony rehearsal and then go to chili's since we love chili's and the manager know us and our orders by heart. But she wanted it at County line bbq. That's fine, it's not fancy and both sides of the family are meat eaters so no big deal. I wasn't keen on it being further away from the ceremony location, but again I'm not paying so I can't really dictate and I really do love me so BBQ, so I'm willing to drive. We (meaning FH and I) sat down and spoke with his parents if they were willing/able to contribute anything. I gave them a printed out excel sheet that was modified with the last 4 things they we still had to pay for. She said they could help a little with he DJ which is $1,480. She said they would put down $500. But hasn't said anything else and also hasn't paid toward it yet and we spoke to them in Feb. I know families aren't obligated to pay for anything now and days and I am so grateful my parents have been a huge help but I was just curious if any of you guys had any help from your family, or grooms family.
I know on the list it doesn't look like FH has paid for anything but I lost my job in February, I was out of work for 3 months, then I had to put my dog down (He was going to be my ring bearer) so FH covered all house expenses and mortgage so during that time we didn't really pay anything toward the wedding. But we are caught up, I have a great job now and we only have two big tickets items to pay for still and that is $1,480 for DJ and $2,800 for food for the reception.