What can I wear to hide back fat?

............either be proud of your body and accept it or get a different dress. It would be too hot for a bolero or jacket yes?

ETA: if that's all people have to talk about about my wedding is my back fat - the only regret I would have is inviting those people. If YOU are uncomfortable in that dress, get a new dress.

What about a lace bolero that doesn't really provide warmth but can camouflage?

Or maybe a long and more opaque wedding veil?

On the other hand, I think us brides tend to focus too much on what we don't like about our bodies, but your guests probably won't even notice!

Is there any way to loosen the dress so it doesn't show?

This is why it's actually stupid that wedding dresses are strapless asks no sleeves. The fabric is heavy and the are all way too tight to be able tobhold them up.

I had a super light weight lace sleeve added for other reasons, but i it still didnt disguise how tight the dress was at the top. But you will have hundreds of photos, and if there are a few you don't like, it's not the end of the world.

I'm with the other ladies... Just don't think about it. You have to decide what is important, and that's really not, i promise. It just feels like it today ?