Jayla
Champion October 2025

What are the 3 most important elements for your wedding?

Jayla, on August 22, 2018 at 12:05 PM

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Whether it's good food, music, and atmosphere, or you're all about the location, decor, and fashion - what are the three most important elements for your wedding? Rue 29 Napa Valley Keep sharing your planning priorities in What's your biggest wedding splurge?, What's your favorite thing about your...

Whether it's good food, music, and atmosphere, or you're all about the location, decor, and fashion - what are the three most important elements for your wedding?

 

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47 Comments

  • Erin
    Expert October 2018
    Erin ·
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    Atmosphere, great food & drinks, and music.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Photographer, location, and food.
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  • Christine
    Expert September 2018
    Christine ·
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    Food, DJ, and location for my guests.
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  • Beecham2Barrows
    VIP December 2020
    Beecham2Barrows ·
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    #1 my dress!
    #2 photography!
    #3 dinner!
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  • G
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Gaynell ·
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    Hello Everyone,

    Definitely my dress, the location, and the food are a must! g
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    The dress is my favorite part!!!

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Yes, photography is huge!!! I love looking at awesome wedding photos!

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    That's a good idea! I'm sure the guests will appreciate it

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  • C
    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    The marriage. The people. The memories.
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  • C
    Super October 2018
    Cassandra ·
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    Music, food and happiness? I just want to have fun!!
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  • BB-H
    VIP September 2018
    BB-H ·
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    The location was very important, as we both have elderly family members who have difficulty moving. We have everything in one place!

    Atmosphere has also been a big thing for us. We wanted things to feel romantic and casual.

    Food/Music/Drink I lump together because they count as the guests experience and that was very important to me. There are so many people we love who are coming to help us celebrate, some of them coming from very far, and I want them to have the best time!


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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
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    I agree! Happiness is very importantSmiley heart

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  • Jennifer
    Super December 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    The ceremony - religion is very important to me so having a full mass was critical and having my priest and organist and the choir (that I usually sing with but obviously wont that day).

    Food - we are foodies, we want a multicourse tasting menu. Cause cant pick favorites.

    My dress - it was my Grandma's made for her as a gift by her MIL who was a bridal designer for a small shop in Queens at the time. I cant have any of my grandparents there on the day so I plan on wearing something that comes from each of them and since I dont have much from Dad's parents this will work for both of them - and for me their marriage was everything I want to have in mine, I always looked up to them for how they were as a couple.

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  • LikeBerry
    Expert April 2018
    LikeBerry ·
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    Vibe, music, open bar. 5 months out, my friends still continually comment on how chill and fun our wedding was.


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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    For me, it was the atmosphere, the food, and the entertainment. I wanted my guests to have FUN, and they did! I loved my venue, it was exactly what I had envisioned. It was fancy, without it being TOO fancy for my tastes, and very welcoming! The food was F A N T A S T I C and we got SO many compliments on it, my head was spinning! The DJ kept people on the floor all night by playing a bunch of different music, and set the ambiance of the ceremony and cocktail hour with nice music playing then too!

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  • Brandy
    Expert October 2018
    Brandy ·
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    Good food for sure. Great music and a lot of dancing. I am hoping that our event is one big dance celebration of love lol

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    Savvy November 2019
    Alba ·
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    The top three important things for me is one the music I would love for everyone to be out on the dance floor enjoying themselves and just having fun.

    Two is the celebration of love/marriage that my FH and I have for one another and we cant wait to share it with our close friends and family all in one place.

    Three the venue/food the venue is so beautiful we fell in love with it instantly and we love that we can provide our own caterer( that they approve) so we are going to have Salvadorian food so I am sure all our family and guest will love that.

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  • Tiffany Rose
    Dedicated August 2018
    Tiffany Rose ·
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    Mine was probably pictures, music, and decor
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Your pictures and decor were awesome!! CongratulationsSmiley heart

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  • N
    Beginner October 2019
    Nicole ·
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    Photography,food and location ( hopefully a place with a great atmosphere that needs few outside decorations)

    Music is really important too but I'll need the photos for when my memory of the day is less clear and to show our kids
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