So it's past the RSPV due date. My mom and I have been contacting the last of the bit of people. There's two people left. One FINALLY got back to me, but he said he has to check work schedule. I mean they are planning a wedding too, so I understand how it's stressful, but it is a week past the RSPV date. His response is: We would love to come, but don't say yes or no yet.
I really need to know for a headcount on tables. It's inconsiderate and I'm just getting frustrated. I don't want to be mean to them. I really need to start seating people and if they don't come, I could combine tables. My mom is having the same problem with one of her friends.
Would you just say look I'm sorry we can't wait any longer so your answer would have to be no if you want more time but you can say yes right now?
What should I do? What would you do in this case?