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LaMia, on April 3, 2018 at 9:23 AM

I haven't been here in a while and have since decided against a destination wedding to have a very intimate and private ceremony. I live in Maryland and will be getting married at the Annapolis Wedding Chapel with just 20 of our immediate family members. I no longer desire and quite frankly can't afford to host a large reception. We are now looking to have a private dinner at a restaurant following the ceremony with just family and close friends.

My question is how do I word my invitations to make clear that those choosing to join us will be responsible for their own bills? Do I even send invitations? I know some of you will disagree with this and suggest that we save up for it but the truth is I honestly I don't want people just coming because it's a free meal but because they truly want to celebrate with us.

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Savvy May 2020
LaMia · on April 4, 2018 at 9:19 AM
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Thank you everyone for your advice, we have been offered a gift from my grandmother to help with the dinner. I prefer a more formal dinner than BBQ, Potluck, buffet, or family style. I'd also like to thank those who offered advice without the negativity and calling my idea rude. I do not have any issues with my family, however my venue will only support 20 guests in addition to the bride and groom, that really is just our immediate family (sisters, brothers, parents and grandparents). We want to include the rest of our very close family and friends, now I don't think any of them would actually only come for the free meal, but lets be honest it does happen and it was an honest thought in my head. (I do tend to overthink things at times)
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