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Yanna&Tray
Beginner August 2021

Wedding Planning

Yanna&Tray, on February 10, 2021 at 10:44 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 11
Heyy Ladies Am I The Only One That feels Like There Going In A Circle But At The Same Time Getting Things Done (Hopefully That Makes Sense) Planning My Wedding Is Fun & Exhausting. Like I Picked Invitations Then I Jump To Picking Food Change My Mine On Invitations Then Jump Back To Decorations I’m Trying To Complete One Task & Move To The Next But It Seems That I Can’t. Any Ideas???.... I Tried Making A List & Checking Things Off But That’s Helping But It’s Not..... Help Ladies Plz & Thanks

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Latest activity by Yanna&Tray, on February 11, 2021 at 11:03 AM
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    Super June 2021
    Melanie ·
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    Try making a smaller to-do list at the beginning of each week! One week say I need to complete Task A and Task B by the end of this week and I'm not focusing on anything else. The next week, I'm gonna complete Task C. That way, you don't see the giant list of the million things you need to do and jump back and forth between 10 different tasks in one day. If you don't focus on one task at a time, you're more likely to want to go back and change things, like your invitations.

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  • Yanna&Tray
    Beginner August 2021
    Yanna&Tray ·
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    Yess okay good idea thank you I love this idea 🥰🥰🥰
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  • Elmarose
    Expert July 2022
    Elmarose ·
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    You are definitely not the only one. So am I. We are considering postponing our wedding in July 2021 to July 2022. Honestly take it one task at a time and be very open with your fiancé about the whole process. Do you have a wedding coordinator ? I found that to be very helpful. List are great but when we are feeling overwhelmed and stressed it can be chaotic. Remember to breathe and if you have anyone you can trust with helping you tackle one item at a time on your list and it will greatly help.

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  • Jessica
    Devoted February 2021
    Jessica ·
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    Is your wedding planner helping lighten the load?
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Your definitely not alone! I was all over the place & driving myself crazy!! I did exactly what Melanie suggested- made smaller, manageable pieces. Finished one project & I might tweak it but absolutely NO major changes. My fiancé finally put his foot down & stopped me from making major changes!
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    That feeling isn't uncommon. Do smaller lists
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  • Expert September 2021
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    I felt this way at the beginning of planning too!

    My fiancé saw that I was getting a little burnt out and made the suggestion to have a monthly to-do list - that way I'm not constantly trying to get something done. You can do a checklist by the month on WW or Zola, or you can create your own if you like to plan yourself! And just try to stick to your list!

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  • Yanna&Tray
    Beginner August 2021
    Yanna&Tray ·
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    Thank you imma take one task at a time weekly & yes my maid of honor helps so hopefully we can handle this. Thank you again & congratulations
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  • Yanna&Tray
    Beginner August 2021
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    Thank you... Yes my fiancé told me this morning we can’t keep changing things we going to stay with one way all decisions are final so we can keep going we have a lot to do... thanks again
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  • Yanna&Tray
    Beginner August 2021
    Yanna&Tray ·
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    Thank you... yes smaller list I’m also gone try imma try to do 3 task a week hopefully me & my maid of honor can make sure these things get done. Thank you again
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  • Yanna&Tray
    Beginner August 2021
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    Thank you... yes my fiancé told me we gone do 2 task a week no more changing things & my maid of honor & I gone get things done & I did make a checklist we gone check things off week by week
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