My photographer has (facial) piercings and while I really don't mind. Some of them are gaudy so I asked her if for the wedding she could put on something more simple since guests will be taking pictures too. No Problem, she said she would have any way even if I hadn't asked and told me about the one wedding where a BM refused to take her piercing out and it put the bride in tears. That got me wondering. How many of you have someone who is pierced in the wedding or so on? Are you asking them to take them out put something else in? Do you think someone should even ask a pierced person to remove their piercings?