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Lynne
Super August 2022

Wedding party uneven

Lynne, on January 7, 2022 at 12:32 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 1 13
I have my bridal party figured out but my fiancés side doesn't have as many people. Is that going to look strange?
I have a maid of honor, a co maid of honor, a junior bridesmaid and 2 bridesmaids. The junior bridesmaid is my stepdaughter (she's 10).
He has a best man and 2 groomsmen.

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Latest activity by Gwen, on March 20, 2022 at 6:18 PM
  • Sharon
    Super September 2021
    Sharon ·
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    We had an uneven bridal party and it was fine. We had our two groomsmen escort the mothers down the aisle then each girl walked individually. No one thought anything of it.
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  • Lynne
    Super August 2022
    Lynne ·
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    Good to know.
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  • Samantha
    Expert April 2022
    Samantha ·
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    We have four bridesmaids and two groomsmen.
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I don't think it will look strange at all! You could have the best man walk with both the maid of honors, have the junior bridesmaid walk down the aisle alone, and the bridesmaids can each walk with a groomsman.
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  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
    Jasmine S. ·
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    There's no need to have exactly even sides. It sounds like you have 5 people and he has 3, which should be fine! If you really want the sides to be even then you could have your stepdaughter (I assume she's your fiancé's daughter) stand on his side and be a "junior groomswoman." But that's totally optional, it sounds fine the way it is!
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  • CountryBride
    VIP April 2022
    CountryBride ·
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    I have 10 on my side including Bridesmaids,jr bridesmaid, 3 flower girls

    my fiance has 9 on his side including groomsmen jr groomsmen and 2 ring bearers

    my bridesmaid is going to escort one of our flower girls down the aisle since she will be a month old

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  • Lynne
    Super August 2022
    Lynne ·
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    I want two flower girls, but one would only be a year & a half.
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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2022
    Taylor ·
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    My fiancés cousin had like 7 bridesmaids to 4 or 5 groomsmen and it was fine
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  • Lynne
    Super August 2022
    Lynne ·
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    Good to know.
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  • Janae
    Devoted September 2021
    Janae ·
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    Mine was uneven! We had planned for it to be even but my best friend got COVID and a few of his groomsmen got called for the military... Forget even! Ask your favorite people and the rest doesn't matter.

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  • Lynne
    Super August 2022
    Lynne ·
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    I like that idea. I need to keep that in mind
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  • Kelly
    Rockstar October 2023
    Kelly ·
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    I had fewer people than my FH so I "borrowed" some mutual friends and brought them over to my side to make it even.

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  • Gwen
    Just Said Yes July 2025
    Gwen ·
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    I literally just found out from one of my bridesmaid’s mom (Not her) that she will not only Not be my bridesmaid but that she won’t even be there! I bought their flowers and was excited to show her. So I’m going to focus on how it’s going to look fine with the unevenness her Not being there will create.
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