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Wedding party help

Lynne, on February 9, 2020 at 9:57 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 8

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My sister and I used to be close then we drifted apart. When my FH were first married she was a bridesmaid. But over the last few months we startes getting closer.

I already selected my bridesmaids. I have 5, my FH has 4 groomsmen.
I want my sister to be a part of my day. But, I don't know where? Any ideas?

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Latest activity by Lynne, on February 13, 2020 at 2:32 PM

Master November 2020
Kristen · on February 9, 2020 at 10:25 PM
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The wedding party does not need to numerically match. Add her if you want to.
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Lynne · on February 9, 2020 at 10:31 PM
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I was told by family that it should match.
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Master November 2020
Kristen · on February 9, 2020 at 10:37 PM
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It is your day. Do what you want. I have been in parties where it was uneven. No one cares. Be careful letting family dictate your wedding. If you want it to match then go for it but if it does not bother you do what you want. You're an adult.
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Lynne · on February 9, 2020 at 10:56 PM
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I know, I will discuss it with my FH.
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Expert October 2020
Onya · on February 10, 2020 at 1:15 AM
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My numbers aren’t going to match. I️t doesn’t matter. It boils down to personal preference.
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Dedicated October 2020
Molly · on February 10, 2020 at 8:56 AM
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Our wedding party is uneven as well. i don't think it matters anymore. and to make it even more uncommon, my fiances sister is standing in the place where a "best man" would. so how untraditional can you get lol. but that's what he wanted and everyone is fine with it.
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MrsD · on February 10, 2020 at 12:44 PM
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I'd add her as a bridesmaid. I was in a wedding in 2017 with 6 BM and 4 GM. It was totally fine.
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