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Wedding party disaster

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Rebecca, on January 5, 2020 at 5:08 PM

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Okay more headache for me. My FH and I don’t have a lot of friends. Our bridal party was supposed to be my sister as MOH his sister as bridesmaid and other sister as jr bridesmaid. His best friend as best man and sisters fiancé as groomsman. We just got word today that bridesmaid and groomsman are stepping down. (That’s a whole other story that really irritates me). I wanted 2 bridesmaid/groomsman on each side and now we only have 1. We are struggling trying to find other people to ask. Well, I have a friend in mind but my FH doesn’t. My vision is NOT to have only MOH and BestMan but I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m so upset and just ready to give up. When your wedding vision gets destroyed it’s really heartbreaking so please no rude comments.

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Sherry · on January 7, 2020 at 11:33 AM
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We had no bridal party and I wouldn't have had it any other way.
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Allyson · on January 7, 2020 at 12:24 PM
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Don’t listen to the negatives comments, I’m so sorry that people would rather respond something mean than say nothing at all. It happens a lot. But the general idea of trying to focus and worry less about the aesthetic is what I would suggest as well in this situation. It will be special no matter what and you will look back so fondly on your pics because there won’t be a temporary friend standing at the altar with you. I honestly regret some of the girls I asked, so I think you are going to be happier with the way that it turned out
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Crystal · on January 8, 2020 at 4:25 PM
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It's super heartbreaking to have your wedding vision destroyed. It just plain sucks. I've had it happen a few times to me (from being that little girl dreaming of having family, to my brother recently telling me he's not coming to my wedding). I'm sorry you're experiencing it.
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