Wedding Night

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Yep. I/we will be staying there the whole wedding weekend actually, while my oot family will be staying in my home to save them money.

We are just coming home and then leaving on our honeymoon the next day.. 10 days of hotels I think we will both be more comfortable in our bed our wedding night

You should be able to. We went straight from reception to the hotel. It wasn't too late, but you should be able to check in regardless. If it eases your mind, have FH call and give them a heads up you may be late in arriving.

Our wedding reception is at a hotel and a room is included in the package we got.

We didn't take a honeymoon yet but we definitely got a hotel room for our wedding night. We finished our reception, then DH's brother took us out for drinks and dinner, and we went to our hotel at a nearby report/preserve. It was very cute (the hotel) and it was way more special than going to my mom's (we got married in my hometown; not where we live!). My brother and his wife booked the hotel for us because in the words of my brother: "it's just wrong to go to mom's for your wedding night and sleep in your old bedroom."

ETA: I know my brother's comment seems really weird but there were other circumstances and he and his wife put our entire wedding together for us and wanted to make it as special as possible since we canceled our big wedding.