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Lauren
Just Said Yes May 2018

Wedding dress cleavage

Lauren, on April 27, 2018 at 4:42 AM

Posted in Wedding Attire 39

I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm worried over the amount of cleavage I have in my dress after trying it on altered. Had I known better, I probably would've stayed clear of the sweetheart neckline, but its too late now to change my dress. I didn't tell the seamstress at the time I was worried...

I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm worried over the amount of cleavage I have in my dress after trying it on altered. Had I known better, I probably would've stayed clear of the sweetheart neckline, but its too late now to change my dress. I didn't tell the seamstress at the time I was worried about the neckline, because it wasn't until I saw the photos that I realized how much was showing. Should I call them and ask for what they can do? Is it too late to to have her add a topper? I'm not even sure that would look good.

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I bought this cover up, but it has to get altered and also not sure how I can dance without it riding up my shoulders:

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39 Comments

  • Sarah
    Devoted June 2018
    Sarah ·
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    First off, your dress is GORGEOUS! I love the lace going into the tulle like that, and it looks amazing on you!

    I can totally understand the worry that you're a bit too revealing; I had the same fears with mine because my fiancé is very conservative. I do love the idea of the coverup you ordered for the ceremony. How do you think your FH would feel about you wearing the coverup for the ceremony, but having a bit more cleavage during the reception? Better yet, how would you feel? I know I wouldn't want to have too much cleavage around my aunts and uncles and what not, which is why I stressed it to my seamstress when we were taking mine in that the ladies needed to be covered as much as possible lol. With 2 weeks I think you still have time! Mine is getting the hem on 4 layers, sleeves, waist, and bustle all completed in these next 2 weeks. I think something smaller like that should be doable. They MAY have to charge a rush fee but if it's that important to you, perhaps it's worth it!

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  • Julie
    VIP April 2018
    Julie ·
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    Thank You!! Yes I was so happy with the change... way too much boob in the first lol
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  • N
    Devoted June 2019
    Natalie ·
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    Girl, you've got a great body to show off! If you're comfortable but afraid what other people will think, don't worry about it. If *you* feel self conscious and you'll be worrying about it all night, maybe I'd call and see what options there could be.

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  • Jen
    VIP July 2018
    Jen ·
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    You look fantastic in that dress and I wouldn't change or cover up a thing.


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  • C
    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    Topper for the ceremony at least? You look great but It is too much cleavage for me personally.
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  • Lucky
    Devoted October 2018
    Lucky ·
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    I personally don't think you need a topper with your dress, but if it makes you feel more comfortable get one!

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  • Noelia
    Devoted October 2018
    Noelia ·
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    I personally thing that it's not noticeable or to the point were someone will be just focused on your chest. If you honestly feel like it's showing to much just go ahead and make the change. At the end of the day you are the bride and want to feel happy and beautiful. Do what you think is best for you. But honestly it's such a stunning dress and it looks amazing on you! Smiley heart

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  • M
    Dedicated May 2018
    Morgan ·
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    First of all, you look amazing!!! And so happy in the dress Smiley smile I agree with others, you being comfortable is the priority. So if you feel happy and confident, then that's all that matters--and if anyone has any comment, they should know to keep it to themselves because it's your body and your day! However, if you feel like it's going to be in the back of your mind throughout the day, then I would definitely just ask your seamstress, you never know what they might be able to do to help until you discuss it with them.

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  • C
    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    This top looks great
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  • Lauren
    Just Said Yes May 2018
    Lauren ·
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    Thank you girls! This makes me feel much better!

    @julie I think your dress with the added panel looks gorgeous! I think that could definitely be an option for me. I may try the fashion tape idea to tuck them down. To alter the dress cost me $450 so im a little apprehensive on getting more things altered to the dress!

    @A that is a gorgeous dress and I don't think you need to worry about cleavage. I'm going to wear my hair around down past my shoulders too, which helps adds cover. Smiley smile


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  • A
    Dedicated September 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Honestly it doesn't look like too much cleavage to me. You love beautiful! but if your uncomfortable with it maybe talk to your seamstress she may have suggestions of what to do.
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  • ThePeoplesBride
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    ThePeoplesBride ·
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    I wouldn't have thought anything of it if you hadn't pointed it out. The dress fits you incredibly well. There should be some time to add some lace if you're still really worried about it.

    You could wear the topper for the ceremony since you will be holding your hands down by your side and in front of you most of the time. It will definitely ride up during the reception when you're dancing. Another option is a lace jacket.

    Photo courtesy of Tulip BridalWedding dress cleavage 1


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  • E
    Super June 2018
    Erica ·
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    Rock to body girl, you look amazing!!!
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  • Kathy
    Savvy April 2018
    Kathy ·
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    If you are uncomfortable, then speak to your seamstress... there are always options.

    I think you look gorgeous! if you are more comfortable with the topper maybe wear it for the ceremony and pictures and dance without it??? but again, you look beautiful!

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  • Pamela
    Dedicated September 2018
    Pamela ·
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    I think you look amazing!!!!! but if you dont feel comfortable ask to see what they can do

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  • T
    Super December 2018
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    Adding a lace or piece of fabric to help make the dress a bit more conservative should not be too difficult or time consuming if you are uncomfortable with the fit of your dress. As the example shows, the piece can be functional and beautiful!
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  • lilchameleon
    Expert April 2019
    lilchameleon ·
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    I’m always team cleavage 🤷🏻‍♀️ Rock it if you got it!
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  • MrsPreach2018
    Master August 2018
    MrsPreach2018 ·
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    The dress fits you like a glove and you look beautiful. I don't think you're showing too much cleavage and it wasn't the first thing I noticed, it was how well it fits. But, what's most important is that you feel comfortable.

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  • R
    Just Said Yes September 2018
    Riann ·
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    I think it looks AMAZING!! You have such a beautiful figure, might as well show it off! As long as you are comfortable in it. If it makes you uncomfortable or you think it will bother you throughout the wedding, I would definitely talk to the seamstress and see what options she has. Good luck! Either way you’ll be stunning!
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