Wedding day fears/nightmare?

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Exactly. I am soo excited but I need to move on. The more time I have the more things I want to add or take away and the more changes I make. I need to focus on just about everything else. I am having a one track mind anymore!! And there are times I have to make myself not talk about it and times I am wondering why others are talking about anything else. I talked to my cousin for 1 hour. We rarely talk. I know she should have gotten my invite at least 1 week before the convo. I just kept thinking when is she going to mention the ceremony?? Omg is she really just going to talk about herself this whole time?? LOL

View Quoted Comment Lmao!!! 😂 😂 😂 It’s like... why don’t you guys care about my wedding as much as I do!! Haha! I totally feel ya girl. Trying to focus on other things is so hard at the moment.

1. Dress not fitting.
2. Tripping over my dress and falling down the aisle.
3. Cake toppling over.

Had a dream last night where I was trying to get my dress altered with just 2 weeks left to go until the wedding! I have no idea why I was trying to get it done at a Macy's-like place rather than a normal alterations shop.

I also had another dream about my dress not fitting on the big day.... heck my outfit wasn't even totally ready but despite the hours it felt like, the clock never moved past noon.

My biggest fear is my FBIL making a scene and ruining our wedding day for my fiancé. He is in the midst of a divorce and has been making everyone miserable. It was his own damn fault and expects sympathy from the family. Ironically, my FH and I are both closer to his soon-to-be ex-SIL than his own brother.

We asked his nephews to be ring bearers and they can't wait! Unfortunately we have to play nice so we don't run the risk of my FBIL barring the kids from coming or going MIA the day of the wedding. Since the wedding is on a Saturday we assume he'll probably have visitation that day.

I could care less about the food or the music. I would just hate to see my FH upset because his nephews couldn't be there on our wedding day.

My biggest fear is falling down the aisle

I have a ton. My dress not fitting or getting ruined with alterations. Getting sick. No shows or guests not coming. My father getting I'll. Decorations not looking nice. The list goes on and on, lol

I was worried about two things mainly:
1. It would pour and ruin our outdoor ceremony. It did rain, but not hard until after the ceremony was over and everyone was inside. Thank you Mother Nature for keeping the rain away just in time!
2. Someone would get extremely drunk, be an idiot, and cause problems. There were a lot of drunk people, but everyone was fine and fun!

The other night I had a nightmare that my dress came in and my fiancé saw me in it! I was determined that I had to order another one and I was so upset bc it was my dream dress lol.

Having a small turn out of guests.
I know manb RSVP but then there are those that do and dont show.
I have 100 guests and so far 64 have RSVP yes