Wedding check bounced

Well, I feel like the other 3 should know what is going on because they probably gave her money. I feel like this could get really really tricky quite fast though... I wish I had more to offer :/

I agree with CeCe: if the other three gave her money, then they should know about it. I would be really pissed off if I gave someone money for something and it never got to the right place.

After that, I would go to her bank to cash it. If there's no funds, just let it go.

Yikes! I would probably just let it go. That sucks I am really sorry

Was it a gift? Was it to help with the wedding?

I would probably let it go. I agree that the others should know about it, but I don't know how you could bring it up politely.

Many banks will let you call to find out if there is money in that account BEFORE you try and cash it again. If there is consistently no money in the account, I would tactfully approach her one more time and then approach another person in the group. That is a lot of money, and the other three people who contributed should know what's going on.

Can you ask your other cousins about it?

It was a wedding gift. They are my cousins so its not like it is a coworker where it would be super awkward. Okay I'll let it go. I can politely bring it up to the others.

Just really sucks because we basically paid $700 for their meals and drinks and we got a bounced check fee in return. They did come, which was good. I rather they not give us a gift at all. O wells.

Oooh okay - yes I would bring it up with the other cousins. I would be royally upset to know that I contributed to a gift that my cousin never received....

I'm texting the other three right now... so we'll see what happens. Everyone has a bad habit of not picking up the phone. Weird.

If they don't respond, just take the loss and never trust them with money again. How awkward.

I would def talk to the other cousins about it bc they have a right to know. If they gave one person $ and that person spent it, they need to know. Keep us posted how this turns out. Good luck!

I am curious to see what the other cousins have to say. If they are not going to give you the money I would at least ask them to cover the fee.

I would let it go.

Keep us updated. I'm curious as to what the other cousins say.

I'm not a bush beater. I'd say something to the other like "you guys didn't have to get us anything, and I understand y'all all contributed, but that bounce fee, threw off my calculations for other stuff". And see what they said.

Did they text back yet??

Ok either they are still on the phone finding this mess out, or nobody has replied yet... Update pretty please!

PS. you should have that cousin pay for that bounced check fee too lol not quite sure how much that costs.

I'm dying of curiosity here!!!! What happened??? Update pretty pretty please.....with sugar on top....and a cherry??