Wedding ceremony no reception??

So I have had it up to my neck with all the opinions of other people. I’m so fed up that I’m thinking of just having a ceremony and then going out with just the wedding party after. Everyone is complaining about the food options like that’s the most important part of the day. You should come to the reception wanting to celebrate the newlyweds. I don’t know why people are sweating the small stuff. It’s really making my blood boil. I don’t know what to do. I just feel like people are taking away my joy. I haven’t been happy this entire time with planning. Everyone is too opinionated and it’s really weighing me down.